u/slagforslugs

I should have known something was wrong when my pwBPD was in a mental health spiral last year. She told me she reached out to her other best friend, the one before me, telling her that she relapsed and was unravelling.

And the former best friend said 'You need to work through this and reach out when you're better.'

At first I thought she was callous. I didn't realise she knew what was coming and set a boundary.

So i stuck around. I got put on a pedestal as FP for a while because I didn't abandon her

Told daily how caring I am

I wish I could reach out to the other girl to compare notes. I thought she was being a bad friend. I realise now she knew what was coming and tried to protect her peace.

That's it. That's the post. I am rewatching Bly Manor and I need these two to collaborate again.

So I donated last week and it is my first donation in over a year.

It has been a week and I still haven't received my usual text saying which hospital my blood went to.

Do they no longer send these texts? Or is there something wrong with my donation?

What the title says.

I was approached by my pwBPD about being a guarantor on their house which they needed due to poor credit score/huge debt.

I have my own home to pay for and children.

But she thought it would be fine for me, as a provider for my family, to take on that risk.

They really do just use people without seeing beyond themselves...

Something my pwBPD says to me.

Like she doesn't have to acknowledge me or respond to my messages because it's 'all too much' so she ignores me. Until she wants something. Then she pops up.

I deserve more than this kind of treatment.

EVERY Saturday I host my pwBPD bestie. She suggested it, saying it would really help her stay sober if she had something on every week. So really I am just here to provide a service.

Every week I provide dinner, drinks, snacks. I host. I provide everything. Even if we chat, watch a movie. Whatever. All the effort is on me. My pwBPD just shows up.

Never brings anything. Not even a tiny token. My mother raised me to never show up empty handed.

And then my Saturday night, which I constantly sacrifice for my pwBPD is totally at the mercy of her moods. If she is in a good mood, we often have a good time. But if she is in a bad mood, it is bad.

This Saturday was the last straw. She was so fucking rude and combative tp me and to my husband. She belittled my mental health struggles, talked down to my husband. I cancelled plans to be there to host her and she was a piss poor guest.

I don't wanna do this anymore. I don't want a dark cloud hanging over my entire weekend

I am getting so impatient.

And the fandom always had theories, some turn out to be true

When do y'all reckon we will get a title reveal?