u/sloppyintensity

I have been doing pf therapy exercises for years and built up my butt muscles and thighs, then started again with a new therapist and she focused on core strength and kegels which has helped with my core but I feel less control over my rectum/anus. I am still relying on laxatives. My doctors tell me to get a stoma since I have already had colon cancer and part of my colon removed. I need a pep talk. I am not getting a stoma unless I have cancer again.

Edited to remove requirement info for constipation thread.