u/smallnerdydumdum

not sure if anyone else has mentioned it on this subreddit in particular but this is getting to the point it’s like becoming the norm.

If you’re under 5’4, underweight, smaller bone structure ect, (even worst if you’re “babyfaced”) it’s basically “over” because it’s “wrong” for anyone to find you attractive.

(don’t even get me started on how BAD it is on Twitter and the “child/l*li” comparisons)

oh and GUESS who’s demonized for it?? US.
not the people who view us and make sick comparisons.

how many times have we heard:

“Why are you wearing children’s clothes? Trying to get pdf attention”

“he’s a pdf that’s why he’s with you”

“If you find this attractive you’re a weirdo”

“he found the legal way”

HOLY STFU. we aren’t even allowed to be LOVED anymore. Jesus Christ.

As someone who’s had trauma and unintentionally regresses like plenty other women, it makes me feel like the bad guy or if people view me as if it’s done on purpose. I feel bad if my bf starts to see himself as a “weirdo” for being seen with me publicly. like ffs man.

I haven’t really used baby oil just basic unscented long lasting moisturizers but I guess I thought about it. Is that bad to do?

For some reason it doesn’t show the flair I’m looking for this situation but says breaks the rules so whatever.

I like most people like a year ago just went along for the faux henna freckle trend and like many didn’t really understand it and just saw it trending.

so I was never aware about fake brands of henna or the risks it can do. (I’m concerned why cancer is being mentioned?)

So the one I ended up getting was neeta brand. I used it for a year already and I never felt like it burned. It never left a scare. Never itched or irritated. Hell I even applied like a couple hours after I’d derma stamp my face.

So not sure if I’m over reacting or if I should still worry since people say the longer you use them suddenly something starts to happen?

But I don’t really want body art, or hair or whatever it’s simply for freckles since I’m lazy to do actual makeup.

Anyway let me know your opinions and if it’s honestly just fine. thank you