Hi!
So I really love Your Nonsense makes sense by The 502s as a first dance song but it's abit too upbeat.
How would I go about getting someone to cover it in a more fitting style for a wedding?
I dont think we will have a band at our wedding.
Sorry if this is a stupid question to ask here
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We have a blended family.
Me f34
My son m13
My daughter f11
My partner m36
His son m7
His daughter f6
And our daughter 10months
Together for 5 years
I have my kids all the time. We have his 50/50 following his work schedule (mines).
His daughter was fully toilet trained while younger. But she struggled over one winter when it was cold and her BM put both kids in nappies again.
Bed-wetting sky-rocketed at our house with both kids as we would not put a 5 and 6 year old back in nappies. Eventually his son stopped bed-wetting but his daughter continued to get worse and started having accidents all day. Even at school.
Shes finally out of nappies at her mums, over a year later. She has developed a water obsession along the way some how. Left unsupervised for any reason and she will drink water. Any water. Dirty water. She has been stealing the baby's sippy cups and drinking all the water without telling anyone.
Shes been tested for diabetes and been to a pelvic health therapist. She doesnt have diabetes and the suggestions was to limit her water intake to 1.2L.
Shes still sneaking water, drinking from the taps with her mouth when she washes her hands.
Her dads now worried about OCD, which he plans on getting her seen about asap. But now he has backtracked on most current punishments just incase she has OCD.
To clarify, the punishments have been for lying, deceiving and disobeying rules. This is not the only aspect of her life where she is misbehaving. She is less obsessed with water when I am caring for her because she knows I follow through with my punishments. That doesn't exactly track for OCD I'm assuming.
I think she should be tested to rule it out but treating her that way without knowing seems silly to me.
Obviously it's a major strain on our relationship. He is sensitive about the topic and feels anything i say is negative. I feel i get in more trouble for voicing my concerns than his daught does for the behaviour. I feel like he is overridden by parenting guilt and making inconsistent choices because of it. I feel bitter. I don't like how cold i am becoming because of this. I feel so uncomfortable in my own home because we are having to watch her like a hawk and she disobeys several times a day which causes so much tension.
Just at my wits end, will it ever end.