u/sorrybotaorry

I got married through an arranged marriage setup and had only met my husband three times before the wedding. But during that phase, we spoke a lot about our lives, past relationships, insecurities, random thoughts…pretty much everything.

Now we’re 9 months into marriage, and honestly, I’ve never been this emotionally open with anyone before. Not even in my previous 6 year relationship. With him, conversations feel effortless and safe in a way I didn’t expect at all.

It made me wonder is this common in arranged marriages?
Like, does the starting fresh aspect somehow make people more emotionally transparent? Or did I just get lucky with compatibility?

Would love to hear how it was for others in arranged marriages.

Got hiccups out of nowhere and now I’m stuck in that loop where every cure sounds fake but I’m trying it anyway
Story so far: holding breath, drinking water slowly, fast, upside down (regretting kurach), ate a whole urula chor even😇 nothing working so far

Oruthan just told me to eat a lemon and I’m genuinely thinking of it like is that a thing or are people just making stuff up at this point? Onnu parayo what’s actually worked for you guys? not the sadarana stuff, but the random trick you didn’t expect to work but did

Because right now I’m about 2 hiccups away from believing anything (literally enthum)

Update: for everyone who asked for the stain pic, it didn’t come out as good as the design.😁

Bit lighter than expected, but still kinda cute irl.Next time hopefully better

Thanks for all the love tho… you guys hyped me up too much 🫂

Tried something new and tbh didn’t expected this to turn out well. A little appreciation wouldn’t hurt tho 😌

Artist here kindly seeking lil validation

Honest opinions? hit or miss?