u/starrymoonchick13

Help. Be honest. Am i in the wrong? Recently dated a guy for almost 6 months. He was sweet caring, romantic, consistent...although he never asked me to be his girlfriend. He kept saying it would be a surprise and couldn't just ask me from one day to the next. I understood he wanted to be absolutely sure before compromising.

We hung out every weekend and talked/texted almost everyday. Last month he called me but i was busy at work and told him i would call him back after I got out. I called him back after my shift but no answer and he never returned my call. This turned into ghosting me for a week and couldnt properly tell me why other than he got pulled over the day he called me at work. However, he still apologized for his behavior and promised to never do it again. I still forgave him. His communication highly improved after that.

Now, this past weekend I wasn't able to hang out with him like he wanted too but we talked saturday for a few minutes. I didnt call him back saturday afternoin/night or sunday because i was busy but at least texted him “goodnight. I love you” on sunday night. To reassure him everything was okay.

Now he blocked me on all social media. He didnt answer my call. I texted him apologizing for not hanging out together and for making him feel like he wasnt my priority or that i didnt care about him and that we needed to talk this through. He never reached back out to me.

I admit i did wrong in not checking in with him this weekend and he felt hurt. Felt like i ignored him and didnt care. However, how come he cant give me a chance to fix it but I was able to forgive him when he ghosted me for a whole week?? I only went 1 day and half of not communicating. Thats it.

Help. Be honest. Am i in the wrong? Recently dated a guy for almost 6 months. He was sweet caring, romantic, consistent...although he never asked me to be his girlfriend. He kept saying it would be a surprise and couldn't just ask me from one day to the next. I understood he wanted to be absolutely sure before compromising.

We hung out every weekend and talked/texted almost everyday. Last month he called me but i was busy at work and told him i would call him back after I got out. I called him back after my shift but no answer and he never returned my call. This turned into ghosting me for a week and couldnt properly tell me why other than he got pulled over the day he called me at work. However, he still apologized for his behavior and promised to never do it again. I still forgave him. His communication highly improved after that.

Now, this past weekend I wasn't able to hang out with him like he wanted too but we talked saturday for a few minutes. I never communicated that I would be unavailable the rest of the day nor that I would be busy on Sunday. Thats my complete fault. That Sunday night I texted him “Goodnight. I love you”. To reassure him everything was okay since I failed to hang out with him without explaining I was busy.

Now he blocked me on all social media. He didnt answer my call. I texted him apologizing for not hanging out together and for making him feel like he wasnt my priority or that i didnt care about him and that we needed to talk this through. He never reached back out to me.

I admit i did wrong in not checking in with him this weekend and he felt hurt. Felt like i ignored him and didnt care. However, how come he cant give me a chance to fix it but I was able to forgive him when he ghosted me for a whole week?? I only went 1 day and half of not communicating. Thats it.