u/starstars1004

There is an arranged marriage discussion happening in my family. The guy and girl both belong to Sagittarius sign. Guy's star is Moolam and girl's is purva ashadha/pooradam. Can these 2 people get married? Is it advisable?

Basic horoscope match looks good for them. Both of them were previously married and divorced. Can we continue the talks in this case of same sign?

This is the split of my monthly SIP. Please tell me if this can be continued or if anything has to be changed:

1. Mid cap fund - growth (rs. 5000)

2. Large and mid cap fund -5000

3. Focused fund regular- 5000

4. Flexi cap fund - 5000

5. HDFC Balanced advantage fund growth - 15000

6. Multi asset allocation fund growth - 15000

Also,

Gold ETF - 25000

Silver ETF - 25000

Total: 1L per month

Age: 32

No loans, own house, salaried person, partially dependant parents, yet to marry.

Basically, same as the title.

I see some genuinely kind women who get treated so badly by their partners. The women are kind, loyal, contribute to the household in all possible ways like domestic labour, financial contributions, upbringing of children, taking care of inlaws etc. But they aren't even respected by their spouse. They will never be prioritised as the most important person.

Whereas I also see some women who do the bare minimum, make absolutely no effort to maintain peace with inlaws, treating his money and their money/her money as her money etc. Their husbands listen to their tunes and don't disturb them at all. They don't mind if she is disrespectful or something.

This might look like a low effort post but I'm really trying to understand why this happens. The 1st category of women should have chosen good partners but we also need to understand that in arranged marriages, it is not always possible to know the person completely. And even in love marriages, such things happen.

Why is it so difficult for men to treat their loyal partners well? I'm keeping this post open to get opinions from men here as well.

I usually have a 30 days cycle with moderate flow. But this month I had very mild spotting on the day of ovulation. And then again very less bleeding yesterday (day 26). I don't usually bleed between my cycles. So I'm kind of worried that this happened, if it is some health issue.

I'm 32 years old, was doing IVF when I was married earlier and not anymore. Stopped all that 2 years back and concentrated on getting better. But this cycle this happened and I'm worried about it. I can't consult the doctor for another week as in travelling. I have scheduled an appt for later. Meantime, I'm looking for some inputs from here for peace of mind. Since I really wish to have kids, any small changes like this makes me extremely nervous.

Is such change normal? Things that have changed in last 2 months are that I'm physically more active with playing badminton, 7k steps walking. Earlier this week I ate many homemade sesame balls and started an iron supplement very recently.