u/stonehammy

Lost my job end of april because I stood up for myself to a coworker talking and sending inappropriate messages about my weight. Management let me go because they said I threatened him in the message I sent to Management. Since then I have felt my life going to shambles and cant seem to get it back on track. My health is going to crap and im trying to get disability or a job before I am homeless.

Im just trying to see if there is any insights as to when I will get back on track and not be homeless as my unemployment is going to run out here really soon. I've done everything I have had to do to try and find a job and try and stay in my apartment. Im just afraid im gonna loose everything I have worked so hard for.

I'm from Northwest Iowa. Been on every dating site known to man and l just seeing if I can maybe hit gold on here. Looking for someone to grow old with as I'm tired of always coming home to an empty apartment, there is only so much Mass Effect games once can play (PS4). I'm 6' tall, Brown hair and brown eyes, I am overweight but have decided I need to change that otherwise I'm going to have a short life and I don't want that. I want to have kids and grow old with someone.

Hmm favorite things/hobbies

-Going to concerts

-Going to Movies (I'm a movie whore)

-Star Wars geek and Marvel Geek.

-I listen to mostly hard rock/heavy metal, not country too much

-Favorite bands are Seether (seen and met them multiple times), Killswitch Engage (Howard Jones fronted is the best imo), Disturbed, In This Moment, Halestorm, Lacuna Coil, Metallica (of course who doesn't like Metallica and call themselves a metal head), and many more.

-Kansas City Chiefs Football fan

-Sci-fi geek (star wars (know trivia upon trivia), star trek to a certain point, Stargate movie and series, Supernatural, Arrowverse shows, etc) -vampire mythology and ghost hunting

-Bonfires

-Long talks that go long into the nights about nothing and everything at once

-Like the seasons of Halloween to Christmas

-Like to sit in front of the window and watch it snow during the holiday season, if there isn't snow it just doesn't feel like the holiday season

-I'm a gamer PS5 mostly. Don't do much online play, haven't found a game that I like yet do that.

-Love the Mass Effect series (yes even Andromeda, once the bugs were fixed it was a really good game) Madden, Tomb Raider games, Star Wars: Fallen Jedi Order. I'm one that will play for a little bit to relax and then go about everyday life.

-My ideal job would be to be in radio as that is what one of my college degree's are in.

-There is a lot more stuff and if you're interested please ask as I am an open book.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm not picky. Of age obviously, Redheads are my kryptonite, someone that isn't looking for a sugar daddy or depend on someone to get them through life, Independent, would be happy cuddling on the couch instead of going out every night (once in a while is fine), if you have kids not problem (kids seem to like me).

If the right person comes along I can do a long distance relationship as long as we close the distance. Just looking for a connection and maybe even if I don't find that I can at least fine someone to talk to.

I'm easy to get a hold of, either through here or kik or if there are other chatting programs I would do that.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Life is kicking my ass right now. Just seeing what you are seeing and if it will all work out soon. Please no smart ass comments.