help me figure out the “code” behind a telepathy game

my friends played a “telepathy game” in front of me.

how it works:

  1. i pick a word and secretly communicate it to one of them
  2. the person who knows the word proceeds to list several words that are incorrect, eventually they say the “secret word” i picked
  3. the person who doesn’t know the word has to say “no” when the word is incorrect, and “yes” when my friend finally says the magic word. when they say yes and guess the word, the game is over.

we played several games and there were no mistakes: they always said yes once the correct word was spoken aloud, they always said no to the incorrect words.

my first guess was that they had an agreed upon “category” of words, such that when a word in that category is spoken, the other person knows the next word is the correct one

i googled it at home and there seems to be a trick with that exact premise called “black magic”, you list several words or point to several objects, when you point/say something that is black, the next word is correct

practical example: i pick “sunshine” as a word and communicate it to A.

A: tree
B: no
A: water
b: no
A: (any other word, as long as the color of the thing/concept isn’t black, for however many rounds)
B: no
A: raven (this is the signal-ravens are black)
B: no
A: sunshine
B: yes

the problem is, i can’t figure out the category that the “signal words” belong in.

from what i can remember of the last rounds, when i was actually focusing:

i picked dice, their penultimate word was their dog’s name

i picked rust, their penultimate word was van

i picked hotel, their penultimate word was their cat’s name

the only pattern here is pet names, but there’s van in the mix and they weren’t using pets, animals, personal names or anything related in the other rounds as far as i can remember. one of them has a van, so it could be “things we have/own”— but then again in other rounds words like “shirt” or “glasses” came up, which they also own, and they weren’t “signal words” but were spoken earlier on.

i would exclude any kind of grammar or math based code since they insist it’s very easy and doesn’t require thinking. so no number of sillables/counting words/same initial (also because their pets’ names don’t share the same initials as the words picked)

i would exclude verbal/body language based tells since they insist it could be played over text.

they insist that the rule is stupidly simple, the sort of thing that makes you feel dumb for not getting it before

when i was telling them my theory about the “signal” before the actual word they agreed it might have something to do with that. but when i proposed, as an example, that i play the same game with our other friend but pick “things she likes” as the category, they said it sounded too complicated

if anyone can tell me the known variations of this game i can try to remember if any of them seems to fit the way they were playing

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u/submissive_sigmamale — 4 days ago

i might miss you forever but that’s not a valid excuse to reach out

when offering advice to others, i’ve often said people are simple creatures: look at their actions if you want to know what they’re really thinking. if they wanted to, they would. i wonder if that’s how you make sense of what i did.

truthfully, i don’t think i’ll ever stop thinking about you. i don’t know if that’s normal. all this drama according to “regular” people should be reserved for family or romantic relationships, but i guess i’ve never been normal about friendship, and i never will. i don’t want to be.

i wonder if you feel the same. i think you probably do. i think you miss me and you hate me and i just miss you. i don’t really care about improving your opinion of me or making you love me or anything like that. it wouldn’t change anything, except maybe make you suffer more and feed my ego, which i have no interest in. i think your negative feelings about me are perfectly reasonable. there’s a few things you got comically wrong in your understanding of why i did what i did, and i admit it irritates me, but that’s alright and i don’t expect anyone to understand me perfectly, though you got very close.

no action will come of this confession. not all pain needs intervention and some things are just meant to be lived with. i don’t want anything from you and i don’t hope you’re doing well and i don’t hope you’re miserable. you just have to get certain thoughts out sometimes, get them in order.

i saw your message and everything else. i’ve changed a lot, but you don’t need to know that. life’s alright. for a while i wondered if i’d ever text in a moment of weakness but as of last year i have proof i’d sooner die than do something so useless. and if you haven’t seen me around it’s not spiritual proof from the universe that i’m out of your life, i’ve been doing my best to be hard to meet.

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u/submissive_sigmamale — 1 month ago

why can i sense people’s physical bodies?

even at a distance, even with other people between us walking around and moving and making noise

i can both sense their presence generally and have a general idea of what they’re doing with their body so if they move to the left or raise their left arm i can feel they’re doing something to the left and vice versa for the right

and also sometimes i lose the ability to do it completely and it correlates with me being really depressed and feeling dissociated and disconnected from the world around me and feeling sad because it feels like i no longer see people as humans i don’t wanna get too into it

what is it

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u/submissive_sigmamale — 2 months ago