u/sugarhiii_

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hii, so my measurements are the following:

underbust
loose: 28
snug: 27.5
tight: 27

bust
standing: 33
leaning: 34
lying: 32

ive been wearing sport bras and bralettes my whole life, so just recently i measured myself and i realized i’m probably a 28ddd. unfortunately i live in an area where i cannot find or order that bra size without paying a ton of money in shipping and then waiting months for it to arrive :’(

so i tried to conform to a 32b. the cups feel kind of okay in volume (if i scoop and swoop i get a quad boob however), and also, i notice that they are a little spaced out from one another if that makes sense.

my biggest issue is the band. i wear it on the tightest hook and it still rides up my back so it does not look flattering at all. so what im trying to do is alter this bra (since the cups are kind of okay) and make a frankenstein 28ddd. i’m not the best at handcrafting stuff so i’m also considering having someone else do it for me. i just want to know if anyone has had success at something like this and what tips and tricks i should follow. any suggestions are appreciated. thank you soso much !!!

im a 21f college student in what was supposed to be my last year of undergrad. ive struggled my whole life with consistency when studying. i was used to being the top student of my class everywhere up until covid hit and i lost all my well established routines. lockdown happened exactly on my two last years of high school and i was not able to attend a single zoom class. eventually my mom had to pay a lot of money out of pocket in order for me to graduate high school.

i thought i was getting somewhere then. even though i felt like a fraud (because i was), i applied for university and got in 3rd out of more than a thousand applicants. i love researching and learning absolutely everything, but for the love of god i cannot do homework outside my classes, which ends up in a spiral of procrastination and self blame. during the first two years of uni, i was able to get on the top 2% of my faculty despite my struggles and poor attendance, but now im flunking entirely and have been for the past year and a half.

im NOT depressed, my brain for some reason just refuses to cooperate and all external motivation that used to work in the past does NOT work anymore. i feel like i need someone to point a gun at me or else i will not get absolutely anything done. last semester i failed three classes. today i am close to failing four more.

in the second week of classes this semester, i tried going to my uni’s counselor in hopes that i might be able to receive some help or actually, just to be heard. instead, that fucking balding man refused to acknowledge any concern i had because “the semester is just starting” and “well you said yourself you got to the top 2%, so you can do it again!”. i told him I suspected having adhd and they just dismissed me saying “If you had that, you wouldn’t even had been able to get into this university” ????? what the fuck

i was so fucking hopeless and that led me to search an external therapist who could help me. as the weeks went by, she said it’s likely that i have both adhd and autism. with this new information i went back to my uni’s counselor and they said “well in that case you could apply for this program that we have for disabled students ☺️☺️”.

that program was a whole scam. the lady that was following my case was extremely condescending and genuinely treated me like a r-word, slowing eeeeeveeryyy singggleee wordddd UGHHH and on top of that, she was NOT a licensed professional according to my country’s school of psychologists 😃 fucking hell

they said that in order for the university to accept my case and eventual accomodations, they would need my whole 40 page diagnosis and another document with a similar length written by myself about how my conditions affect me, in excruciating detail. after i submit all of that, they would get back to me in THREE WEEKS with an approval OR REFUSAL and that every consideration would only be taken after my admission into the disabled students program. so basically any chance of passing this semester is gone.

i am so frustrated with myself. ive always felt both stupid and smart at the same time but lately i realize that being smart and knowledgeable isn’t what gets you far in life. i know i sound incredibly privileged with the fact that im able to pursue an education, and i know i am, which just makes me feel worse. i wish i could give my life to someone else who would actually make the most out of it.

recientemente un hombre me dijo que yo le recordaba al personaje de “la niña mala” del libro de mario vargas llosa… ¿qué me habrá querido decir? 😃