u/suicibal_

Hi everyone! I hope youre all doing well, wherever you are in this beautiful night or day.

I wanted to ask for help clearing up some confusion in my head and finally figuring out my type.

Ive been interested in typology for a few years now, and i have to admit that understanding myself has always brought me comfort. Knowing why you act the way you do and how your mind naturally works can feel really reassuring.

But when it comes to socionics, i feel stuck. Im constantly unsure of myself and somehow feel like both EII and IEI at the same time. Ive researched this topic a lot, yet i still cant confidently decide. What would you recommend i do to clear the “clouds” in my head and see myself more objectively? Id also really appreciate it if someone could point out some noticeable differences between EII and IEI.

Asking out of curiosity

(Im still new so pls be polite) For some reason i relate to both Fi and Ne subtypes, like really much i cant decide which one i am.

Im sure i appear cold to strangers, or even seem unkind but when someone talks to me im actually very kind and polite. This makes me think that im a Fi subtype. But i heard that Fi subtypes are often focused and organized people, im not... really not.

On the other side, Ne subtype appear more energetic and friendly, i kinda lose points in there, but they are very good with possibilities and theories, i gain lots of points in here. Also I heard that Ne subtype is often unorganized people, and im very unorganized.

Im thinking of EII-1Fi or EII-1Ne for myself (i still dont know much about the numbers though) maybe EII-0, but im still so unsure. Can someone help? (Im infp if(n) so/sp469 E³L⁴V⁴F² [R]L/U/ai mel-phleg chaotic good PL-CY, if thats gonna help)