u/swat547

We are moving making a big, multi state move in a few days and so we are, of course, down to the wire getting everything packed. That means our son, who is five and has a lot of trouble playing alone, or really doing much at home alone, basically watched TV all day today. Like from breakfast to dinner with a break for lunch. It was like that for most of yesterday too although he did get out of the house for a play therapy appointment and some errands.

He is pretty happy with the screen time but I feel like a terrible parent. He has been asked to help a number of times but he doesn't really know what to do (and is not very interested in learning) and honestly, it's easier to get just get it done at this point. He is going a little stir crazy though and has a lot of energy with nowhere to go. Hopefully we'll have some time tomorrow to take a walk or hang out at least. It's also super hot and humid here so just sending him outside isn't an option, and he wouldn't really go without one of us out there.

Just venting about creating a situation where he ends up being more hyperactive, but it's necessary that we focus on packing.

Any tips?

My measurements are:

Loose Underbust: 32.5

Snug Underbust: 32

Tight Underbust: 31.5

Standing Bust: 33.25

Leaning Bust: 34

Lying Bust: 33

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The calculator gave me 32b or 34a.

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I am surprised by the underbust measurements because I really thought I was always bigger ribbed than that but I have redone it a couple of times today 🤷🏼‍♀️. I have done the calculator a few times in the past and have usually gotten frustrated and given up.

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Yeah, I have very small breasts. I am 44 and female at birth. I would just go bra less but I like a bit of a boost and the appearance of a slightly larger chest that a bra gives me because my belly sticks out a little more than my boobs and clothes are just more flattering with a bra on. I have tried pasties for nipple coverage and can get away with it depending on the outfit but they don't really give me the lift that I want most of the time.

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My breasts are also very low on my chest with about 4.5 inches between my collar bone and my breast tissue. I am always loosening straps all of the way in order for then not to dig in. I believe they are shallow. I have literally never had cleavage in my life.

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I really do not like tight things. Even a sports bra feels too tight or some bralettes that you put over your head. You could not get me in shapewear if you had a gun to my head. I used to buy 38a's although I know now that is not my size. I prefer wireless bras when possible.

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I am currently wearing Honeylove bras in medium, which actually fit pretty well but they are really hot in summer weather so I am hoping for some recommendations that breathe a little bit.

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Any recommendations for a truly small chested lady with big ribs who wants a comfortable, not too hot bra that gives her a little more boob so clothes fit normally as well as nipple coverage?

Yesterday on WFPL, I caught something about an event at Seneca Park from 11-6 with food trucks and other stuff. It was not the brewery thing later at night. I can't find anything online about it. Does anyone know when that is if it's not today?