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Cucumber, tomato and lettuce salad with hard boiled eggs and some parmesan.

So my my bf (M30) and I (F22) were talking and the topic of threesomes came up, he asks me if I would ever be interested in something like that, I said definitely not and asked him the same question. He says he would be down if I’m okay with it. He also said that he would only be willing to do it with another girl and never with another guy. He says I would pick the girl and I would control everything, who she interacts with what she does etc.

I got pretty upset by this because its making me feel like im not enough for him, like if I was okay with it he wouldn’t be opposed to sleeping with another girl. Whereas I would never even want to sleep with another guy even if he was okay with it.

I voiced all of this to him but he thinks I’m dragging this and that if I’m not interested I should just say that, and he would respect it and not bring it up again instead of trying to start an argument. He also switched up halfway through the argument and said he only wants someone to watch while we go at it but not interact. Which he’s only saying cause he saw how upset I got.

Guys am I crazy for being upset about this? I can’t help but feel like if he really loved me and if I was truly enough for him he wouldn’t even want to do something like this, with or without my permission.

EDIT: Thank you everyone for your advice and thoughts it’s really validating to hear I’m not crazy, so thank you for that 🥹 I also just wanted to clear up the situation a little bit, he is NOT pressuring me into doing anything, it was mostly just a random question out of curiosity but I was sort of the one who probed him for answers and then it just became a whole argument, thats why he told me I should just say I’m not interested and drop it. My issue mostly stems from his willingness to do this in the first place, not necessarily that it will actually happen.

Ive had acne problems since I hit 14 (I’m now 22) and i only recently got diagnosed with type 2 rosacea. Ive tried azelaic acid, protopic, topical and oral metronidazole, ivermectin, oral doxycycline, oral lymecycline.

My skin has gotten so much worse than when i first started going to derms and taking all these pills and creams. Before I was taking a combo of oral doxycycline, oral metronidazole and ivermectin, this cleared my skin completely in about a week and stayed clear when i was consistent with the meds, finished my course, everything came back 10x worse.

I saw a different derm and she prescribed me with oral lymecycline and more ivermectin, this also helped and also stopped the minute i stopped taking it, I ended up getting sick and I couldn’t tolerate any antibiotics so I stopped and only started using the ivermectin, used it twice a day and it was doing wonders and cleared my skin, reduced the redness and improved my texture and I thought finally something i can use long term. Nope. 2 weeks later it all comes back 10x worse. Im seeing that its common and its a demodex die off phase, which I never got when I took ivermectin with the doxycycline metronidazole combo, and idk if i should just power through with it or stop. I wanna try accutane but even that I’m sure will not help.

Idk I’m just hopeless now anytime I feel I’ve finally found a solution it always backfires on me. I thought I got lucky cause I found a solution that works but am I really supposed to take these antibiotics for the rest of my life? I can’t even look at myself in the mirror without wanting to cry and I can’t leave my house without 10 pounds of makeup on.

Boyfriend wants a threesome