u/swissyak

I know it’s not a snappy title, but essentially my best friend and I just graduated high school. We have been friends since 6th grade and were planning on moving to SoCal in July.

For context, she has a savings account from her parents that has 15k and I got a large sum of money once I turned 18 from a lawsuit.

Even though she has enough money for move from the savings account, I told her since August 2025 to get a job so she would have experience and also wouldn’t have to totally rely on her savings. I got a job in September. She didn’t even start applying till January and she told me that she was checking on her applications but I suspect she was lying considering she didn’t get a single interview.

Fast forward to May, I just start a brand new relationship with this guy. (This will soon be relevant). She texts me that she is unable to move (2 months before we are supposed to); mind you she had been telling me for months that she would be able to and she promised me she would get access to her savings account. She told me she would move in January 2027, until then she would work full time. I don’t freak out at all, I am super chill about it because there is no point in “I told you so” now. (Everyone tells me I am crazy for not being mad). I decide to stay in my hometown with her for the six months because it would be hard to find a roommate for a short amount of time and I didn’t want to be alone.

She proceeds to start acting irritated for no reason every time I see her. She also meets my new boyfriend for the first time and starts making fun of him. Well he takes nothing seriously and starts jokingly making fun of her back, BUT is also insanely polite and a very good host whenever she came over to his place. She starts calling him mean to me and tells me she hates him all the time, to the point where I stop talking about him and I don’t bring him around her. Then she starts talking horribly about him to all of our friends before they met him, constantly saying she hates him.

I then hang out with our friends right before I go on a trip; I discuss my frustration and talk about how I feel she has treated me so poorly recently and that I feel as though I should be the one who is mad because of her inability to move and be responsible, and then her only apologizing for not being able to move once over text. I say that I am nervous to move in the winter. Then one of my friends tells me that she is planning on staying a year in our hometown, not just six months and that she blew her entire first pay check at her new job. I find out she has told everyone except me. When I confront her about it she gets defensive and doesn’t apologize, I brought up her shit talking my boyfriend and she just texts me back “ok”. Now I am not so sure about moving out at all with her. Am I in the wrong?

okay so all of this information could be wrong but ive been trying to find this movie that i watched when i was younger.

its animated, the premise of the film is a child (i cant remember if the mc is a girl or boy) in a coma(?) or surgery of some sort and they dream through it and go on some sort of adventure. i THINK they find two friends in the dream and one of them was maybe named ruby? at the end the kid wakes up and the friends are not real like it was all a dream but theres a sign that they were there.

this is all i remember! some of this info may be wrong

Edit: I am 18 now, it could’ve been some halloween film as it had a spooky vibe; the characters I think were at least kinda spooky but possibly some sort of monsters/creatures. If I had to guess it was a 2000s film and I did watch it at home, not in theater.