My girlfriend wants us to move in with her friends.
My girlfriend wants us to move in with her friends and I’m unsure of it. The whole 2 years we’ve been together I feel like they haven’t really wanted to genuinely get to know me and only tolerate me because I handle all the bills/caring for my girlfriend. I don’t think they like me. It’ll be a big house and cheaper for me but I just don’t know. Also, their friendship is odd to me because I believe there’s underlying flirty feelings between my girlfriend and her friend’s partner. That’s another story LOL
Like I’m 100% certain if my girlfriend had a job they’d just ask her to move in with them and keep me where I’m at lol but my girlfriend wants to live with me. I don’t know. I asked if she had the opportunity would she live with them alone and she said no. Am I being too sensitive? Also they discussed the house stuff while I was at work and at first I said yes but I didn’t know my girlfriend would tell them right away so now they think we’re on board. I should’ve said no and took more time to think about it. Something is just weird! Maybe I’m overthinking but..
I just don’t play around when it comes to my housing. I want to feel safe, comfortable, and stable. I think my autonomy would be disrupted if I were to do this..any advice?