The 80-Day Nightmare of Sabine Dardenne: How a 12-Year-Old Survived Belgium’s Most Infamous Predator

On May 28, 1996, 12 year old Sabine Dardenne left her home in Belgium on her bicycle, heading to school just like any other morning. She never made it. Dragged into a van by Marc Dutroux, a convicted child rapist out on early parole, she was shoved into a dark, cramped cellar hidden behind a false wall in his basement.

For 80 harrowing days, Sabine was subjected to physical abuse and psychological torment. Dutroux played sick mind games, convincing her that her parents had abandoned her and refused to pay a ransom, while framing himself as her "protector" shielding her from a fictitious criminal boss. He even let her write letters to her parents, which he kept and never sent.

Sabine’s life was saved only because Dutroux made a critical error three months later. In August 1996, he kidnapped 14 year old Laetitia Delhez. An alert bystander spotted his suspicious van and jotted down the license plate. When police raided Dutroux’s property on August 15, they finally found the hidden trapdoor and pulled both girls out alive.

The rescue exposed a horrifying scale of atrocities and massive institutional blunders. Four other young girls abducted by Dutroux (Julie, Melissa, An, and Eefje) were not as fortunate.. two starved in his cellar during a period he was briefly jailed for car theft, and two were buried alive. Public rage over how police repeatedly overlooked red flags triggered the "White March," where over 350,000 citizens flooded the streets of Brussels demanding systemic reform.

Sabine’s story remains an unbelievable display of human resilience. Years later during the trial, she sat in front of a packed courtroom, looked her captor dead in the eye, and fiercely confronted him. When she asked him directly, "Why didn't you kill me?" Dutroux had no answer. She went on to publish her memoir, I Choose to Live, cementing her status not as a perpetual victim, but as a survivor who reclaimed her story.

u/targaryenbutirl — 11 days ago

NYC attorney, illegal adoption, and a 10-hour delay to call 911: The disturbing 1987 Joel Steinberg case

The 1987 case of Lisa Steinberg remains one of the most tragic and complex stories in true crime history. The nightmare actually began six years prior, in 1981, when a unwed mother named Michele Launders hired Manhattan defense attorney Joel Steinberg to arrange a private adoption for her newborn daughter. Instead of placing the baby with a suitable family, Steinberg kept $500 in placement fees, forged the paperwork, and took the child home to his Greenwich Village apartment to raise alongside his partner, former children's book editor Hedda Nussbaum. Lisa was never legally adopted, leaving her completely off the grid and without state oversight from day one.

Behind closed doors, the apartment became a squalid, cocaine-fueled environment where severe domestic abuse and isolation went unchecked. Things culminated horrifyingly in November 1987 when Steinberg struck six-year-old Lisa, causing severe brain trauma. Rather than getting her emergency medical care, he left the apartment for a dinner party. He returned hours later to freebase crack cocaine with Nussbaum while Lisa lay unconscious on the bathroom floor. It took over ten hours for anyone to finally dial 911, and Lisa tragically passed away days later.

When police arrived, they found Nussbaum severely battered, malnourished, and suffering from extensive physical trauma inflicted by Steinberg. The case turned into a massive media circus when prosecutor charges against Nussbaum were dropped in exchange for her testimony. This framed her as a victim of extreme Battered Woman Syndrome, while Steinberg was convicted of first-degree manslaughter. Decades later, the case still raises intense debates around missed warning signs, institutional failure, and co-conspirator or liability versus victimhood.

u/targaryenbutirl — 18 days ago

AITJ for distancing myself after my drunk cousin randomly texted me to mock my mental health?

My cousin Chloe (20F) and I (19F) have always been very close. Because of our closeness, she knows a lot about my personal life, including my past struggles with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) and panic attacks. While I’ve been doing okay and managing well lately, it’s something I was comfortable sharing with her in confidence.

A few weeks ago, Chloe was having a rough night due to some major arguments and marital problems with her husband. Out of nowhere, she got heavily drunk and sent me a series of messages. In the texts, she was literally laughing at me, calling me pathetic for having mental health issues, and saying I have a very weak mind. She followed it up by bragging about how strong her own mind is compared to mine.

I was completely blindsided and hurt. I didn't pick a fight, but I decided then and there that I couldn't maintain the same level of closeness with her. I haven't cut her off completely, I'll still be polite at general family events but I stopped texting her daily, sharing personal things, or hanging out.

Chloe recently noticed the distance and confronted me. When I brought up the text, she brushed them off, saying she was just drunk, upset about her husband, and taking her frustration out on the wrong person. She claims I'm being petty for holding drunk texts against her and ruining our closeness over a mistake made during a hard night.

I feel for what she's going through with her marriage, but I don't feel comfortable being close to someone who uses my past struggles as ammunition when she's upset. AITJ?

TL;DR: My cousin got drunk while fighting with her husband and randomly sent me abusive texts mocking my past anxiety struggles and calling me "weak-minded." I pulled back from our closeness to protect my boundaries, but now she claims I'm being petty for holding drunk texts against her.

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u/targaryenbutirl — 24 days ago
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If you could put Sebastian in a room with ONE other TWD villain, who are you picking to give him a reality check?

Personally, I’d love to see Negan from Season 7 roast this guy for 5 minutes straight. Who are you sending in?

u/targaryenbutirl — 25 days ago

The Vanishing at the Cecil Hotel (2021) – The Elisa Lam Case

Even years later, the details surrounding Elisa Lam’s disappearance at the Cecil Hotel stay with you. That elevator footage alone generated thousands of theories before the official findings were fully explained.

The 2021 Netflix docuseries spent a lot of time establishing the hotel’s notorious history, from Richard Ramirez to Jack Unterweger to set the mood before diving into Elisa's timeline. While the tragic reality of her death eventually comes to light, the series spends hours exploring websleuth theories, misdirected outrage, and bizarre coincidences.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on how the documentary handled the mental health aspect at the end.

u/targaryenbutirl — 27 days ago

AITJ for completely cutting off a best friend who expected 24/7 immediate availability?

I recently ended a longterm friendship with someone I considered one of my best friends. We aren't young kids anymore we have jobs, personal goals, and real-life priorities to focus on. I’ve always considered myself a sweet, supportive friend, but keeping up with her demands became exhausting. Whenever she called or texted, she expected me to respond immediately. If I took hours or sometimes days to get back to her, she would throw a fit. Mind you, she was fully aware of the mental health struggles I was going through at the time (I'm in a much better place now). There were just days when I didn't have the emotional energy to talk to anyone, and I thought a best friend would understand that. Instead, her reaction was to block me every single time I wasn't available fast enough.

This happened four separate times, and every time, I was the one reaching out, apologizing, and begging her to understand where I was coming from. But on the 5th time she blocked me over a delayed reply, something in me just snapped. I got completely exhausted by the cycle and decided to cut her off for good. I still have a soft spot for her and sometimes hope we can reconcile in the future, but I just couldn't handle the constant guilt trips and block-and-unblock games anymore.

So, AITJ for giving up and completely cutting her off?

TL;DR: My best friend expected me to reply instantly to all calls/texts and blocked me whenever I took time to respond due to my busy life and mental health struggles. After apologizing and chasing her 4 times, I got tired of the cycle on the 5th time and cut her off completely.

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u/targaryenbutirl — 28 days ago
▲ 3 r/TWD

Anyone else miss Alden?

He had a really solid redemption arc, going from a cooperative Savior prisoner to a genuinely loyal and reliable member of the group. He always tried to do the right thing, stepped up when Hilltop needed him, and stayed loyal until the very end.

u/targaryenbutirl — 1 month ago