If i were to go to a salon and pay $200 for a haircut, why is it that you have to pay gratuity on top? i dont understand why tipping would be apart of hairdressing. i understand like wait staff but hairdressers literally set their own prices and most times its HIGH. why is this a thing genuinely?
I wanted something quite feminine and have been really disappointed by this cut. The lady spent a lot of time on it, but a lot of the bottom of my hair is gone and thinned out. i really hate the look as i wanted something that really brings my femininity out, i feel like this is a bit more masculine for me and the face framing is hideous on me. i feel pretty shit as i had grown my hair out for months and now its a lot shorter. what do i do?? is there a haircut that i could get another stylist to do that might make me less insecure? thank you!
I want to play Odyssey because i get to play a girl and i prefer female leads or main characters but i dont ever see it recommended by guys. I dont need to play a girl but idk if id enjoy it as much if i played a guy. What do you all think if youve played them? What are your opinions on them?
going to NYC as a 22F & 25F for three weeks. flights were 3 grand combined. hotel $6000 (all australian dollars). we are very risk averse but what type of insurance would you get if any? all i rlly care about is medical and maybe emergency cancellation but it is quite pricey starting at $500 for us both
Can i get a refund somehow? this sucks. it was only 8 dollars but i practically gambled my money away. It was a professional hairdresser but he doesnt have any proper videos on his subscription page. theyre all old and shitty clips. if i should just accept im a dumbass let me know. ive never subscribed before, i just wish i didnt try.
for reference theyre called oxford parties-mate
2 years in how am i supposed to feel about her? I just feel like im dating my best friend. Everyone says thats normal… but i dont know. I cant see us getting married. but she hasnt done anything bad and i trust her completely. she is so special. but im probably going to be 25 still asking myself all this. i need help
22F
I am suffering at the use of secondhand apps and cheap stores. i buy so much stuff i dont know what i own. its all impulse purchases. ive never really had a hobby in the last five years… i didnt grow up with hobbies. all i know now is work and money.
i want to know some actually fun hobbies someone who works 6 days a week can do so i can put myself out of my shopping addiction. sometimes i think of learning guitar… but i dont know which one or if ill even care after a week. hobbies seem like something almost difficult to find. what have you found or any ideas?
id spend a lot of time and effort trying to get there from Manhattan
What are some foods and experiences you cant have in aus that you’d recommend to others that arent on every single travel blog?
what should i do to prepare/avoid this and does anyone have anymore information about the process? I’m quite political (free Palestine, LGBT+) on my private social media sometimes. I havent got any posts about DT or anything but i do like a lot of anti DT posts. nothing too weird or extreme though. will they search my camera roll? should i hide my photos?
i have regular studs from the piercing shop but theyre super uncomfortable (studs are 8 times out of 10 uncomfortable for me) and i read online that i cant change them until i feel nothing. these studs are uncomfortable but because of that i dont know if my ears are healed enough or not to replace them. what do?
loooove these boots. cant find anything like them except harley davidsons but theyre more expensive and harder to find.
I can get these for half price but i dont want to waste money. theres not many reviews beyond a couple on google saying the lining has rubbed onto their socks(okay cheap) but im trying to find a reason to believe theyre worth it
jeans! i wash them after every use almost. i cannot stand the thought of my jeans having other peoples germs on them or even my own. my partner could go aslong as possible not washing hers until theres a stain or dirt. drives me nuts. its almost like theyre infected in my mind? I need people to say im crazy and accept that people will wear jeans mutliple times outdoors, come home and take them off and go straight into bed(i cannot accept this) do you consider this dirty? acceptable? clean?
just after all the comments on OCD, it doesnt offend me at all that people are putting it out there. Im lucky that this doesnt have a negative toll on my life or my mental health its more so an ingrained practice as im quite sterile in my entire home.
pretty much what the title says. i weened off 2 months ago and been taking it all day by day with the side effects of leaving it. but god the brain zaps are like constant electricity in my head every second. I weened off properly, dropping from 20 to 15 to 10 to 5 to even 2 1/2 over the course of a month. my poor head.
on the good news though, the depression and anxiety have faded off, so… yay!
hi! my(25f) family wants to take a trip to nyc as a holiday but ive recently started a new full time role. itll be just a couple weeks before my 6 month probation ends . id need to take exactly 14 working days paid/unpaid leave. should i skip out on this possibly once in a lifetime trip for the sake of keeping my employers pleased and try to go next year on my own instead? i would love to go, this job is ok so far, not great but better than being jobless. what should be my course of action?