u/teeheehaha666

21 cis/straight male w bpd. I find it so difficult to maintain any kinda of relationships with woman friends. It’s mostly just that they seek relationships with other men. It implies their closest connection is gonna be with that man they’re interested in, and not me. Whether we’re In an Intimate arrangement or not, it’s too much for me to handle.

I’m their person and they’re supposed to be my person- I can’t handle it. The rejection when they talk about other prospective suitors is unbearable.

I cant even have friends of the opposite sex. It sucks so badly. Really reaffirms I can’t maintain relationships in general due to this hellish condition.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?