u/teenagemausoleum

I've never really wanted a big wedding, but for my fiancé, and especially his family, it is very much expected. I have a small family and very few friends, so my guests would probably total....15? My fiancé has a huge family and he wants like 5 best men, and that's AFTER narrowing it down (i have probably 2 people who'd even agree to be my MOHs).

has anyone gone through this? i feel like it will be so shameful for me; his entire network, coworkers, etc will see how tiny my life is. my only thought is that maybe i can somehow get into a ton of hobbies in the year before the wedding and make friends to invite that way? we *just* got engaged.