u/the-first-of-many

371***** OUT

371***** OUT

My account has some context, but anyways I did put in my two weeks a couple days ago. I already have a slightly lower-paying but lower-stress job lined up, and I’m interviewing for two lower-stress higher-same pay jobs later this week.

I’m genuinely so excited, as someone who’s worked at three cafes, to be leaving after a year and some change. Genuinely, while a good SM ca make a good store, the bad times have always outweighed the good times for me.

There’s always these fights between the dayparts, interpersonal drama that is genuinely so stupid but ends up pulling everyone in, and this company will abuse you if you give them even a little bit of effort. I’ve watched baristas hired after burnout so fast because they’d say yes to getting extra tasks once and be expected to do it everyday afterwards.

Upper management (DM+) and most SMs are also so, so two-faced. They’ll say one thing to you face, then a partner at another store you cover will be like “sooo… have you heard about xyz”.

My main store for the first while was so good and chill with a good team, though there were still problems, but it genuinely made me happy to be there. Plus the customers didn’t suck, everyone communicated, the SM is one of the silliest guys ever, and the store culture acted like a unionized store even without being one.

On that note, fuck this union busting bs company

One tip I can give for new baristas: don’t ever, and I mean ever let yourself stress out over this job. Genuinely, do the minimum you can do to get by. It’s not worth it to have a good work ethic.

I will miss my SSV pay and most of my team, but I’m sure no other job is going to make my depression get as bad as this one has.

Excited for new adventures, excited to call out my last two weeks and finally use my 60 hours of left PTO (sorry other SSVs, someone’s gonna have to close lol…), and excited to not be working 7 days a week

u/the-first-of-many — 11 days ago

I’m about to get fired

Apparently I did some violent stuff to a barista (not saying specifics cause it’s an active investigation)

I’m not even 20 minutes into my fucking closing shift, and after the investigation talk with my district manager I’m currently just fucking crying on the bathroom floors. I want to go home, this just sent me to such a fucking state of shock.

I’m the closing supervisor but I just… can’t

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u/the-first-of-many — 14 days ago

Tip Basket Rant

my cafe just go those tip lock boxes with the tiny slit in the top and no space in the container, and since that change our tips went from 95¢-$1 per hour worked all the way down to 75¢-80¢ per hour. I’m pissed. I go like $20-something for a full time week and most baristas got way less.

I’d rather the risk of our tips getting stolen because these things fill up so fast and people just don’t want to take the time to put bills in the tiny slot. ffs.

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u/the-first-of-many — 30 days ago

Effort

there’s a lot I’m willing to work through, and I’ve extended my olive branch.

it’s no more fake than any of my other feelings. it’s raw and reactive.

the same part of me that said it would rot away if I let you play the same games I’ve been through a thousand times over pictures pictures itself crawling out of me and living like a small tumor on your body. anything, so it could have the closeness it desires.

i stand on my decision to unadd you. why would I pour such constant effort into someone who could just as easily disappear from my life as flip it upside down?

but that doesn’t mean I’m over you. i don’t get over people, even when they prove time and time again they don’t deserve me. you did it once, even just one conversation and I’d be yours again.

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u/the-first-of-many — 2 months ago

Delusions

I’m sitting here waiting for you to make a move

and convincing myself every little thing is one. Your status, the music you’re listening to, because those are the games I know how to play

chess was never my strong suit, but leaving my message hidden in between the lines is

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u/the-first-of-many — 2 months ago