u/the-raccoonteur

De curiozitate, cei care stați singuri în apartamente/garsoniere în Cluj, cam cât dați pe chirie? Eu momentan dau 420€ pe o garsonieră, este foarte mică dar în centru, ceea ce îmi convine, pentru că mă ajută locația și nu am nevoie de nu știu ce spațiu. În schimb, sunt curios dacă plătesc un preț corect sau dacă dau prea mult. E un pic sub o treime din salariul meu. Parcă mi-ar plăcea să dau mai puțin, mă întreb dacă e un pic iresponsabil dpdv financiar să dau atât, dar poate sunt eu out of touch.

I am very desperate and I don't know what to do in this situation. My 2 year old sterilised male cat all of a sudden started peeing on our bed. This happened 4 times over the span of a week, after which I took him to the vet. The vet said it could either be a UTI or stress. He believes it's not a UTI because he doesn't exhibit any symptoms, pees in the litterbox as well, doesn't strain during peeing, has a normal appetite and energy level. But to rule it out, he gave me a Catrine kit to collect his urine to get it tested. I've put the Catrine pebnles in the litterbox as instructed but he refuses to pee in the litterbox because of the pebbles, so I don't know how to collect his urine in this case.

I notice he started peeing the bed on the night when I went to a sleepover so I wasn't home. I did make sure to leave plenty of food and water and I was gone for 24 hours, not more. But I feel like after that, he got stressed and would pee the bed whenever I'm not home at night. He gets plenty of attention and treats during the day so this sucks because I should be able to leave the house in the evening when I need to.

Thw worst one was yesterday when he peed in the litterbox during the day, and I left at night to go get groceries, so I was out only one hour and a half, and when I returned I saw the bed is peed again.

I am at the end of my wits here, I have to wash duvets and pillows non-stop and I can't cope anymore, I am stranded and I don't know what to do to correct this behaviour. Any advice is welcome.

Hi everyone! For context, my boyfriend and I have been together for a very short time before his TBI, 1-2 months. Fast forward to when the accident happened he was in quite some state and hospitalised for almost a month, when, despite not knowing him that well I kinda became his caretaker and tried to help with anything I can. I am scared I may have overdone it? He is out of hospital for some weeks now and generally feels much better although I think he is insecure about his injury/feels like he is handicapped/not whole. I tried to be supportive but I don't think it's landing right, because recently he kept saying he doesn't need a second mum and that I am behaving like a mum. Obviously that's the last thing I want, and I notice that this kills any sexual tension/romantic feeling. How to be supportive but in a girlfriend way and without feeling like his mum? thanks xx