I’ve been going down a rabbit hole of UK cold cases recently and was curious; which cases stick with you the most and what are your theories on what actually happened?
Could be disappearances, murders, unidentified people, anything really. Interested in hearing about the lesser-known cases.
n.b. Please keep it respectful towards victims/families.
Hey,
I am aware that there are already loads of Discord and WhatsApp groups for people to chat and get assignment help. But I find the chats quite short, and I miss actually making friends like I did at a brick university. So I have created a Discord server which is a more relaxed space and there are also different areas for assignment help, resources, normal chat, gaming, music, memes/TikTok's, etc.
Hoping to do some gaming nights.
It’s very low pressure and still small, but if anyone wants to join just message me and I’ll send the link 💛
So I (F27) vocal stim quite often, like just sing random parts of songs or sing to tunes from games. It can be quite annoying and repetitive for others. (Because it’s usually the same songs and tunes) No one has ever really mentioned it being annoying though, they just think it’s fun, part of my diagnosis and a part of my quirkiness. Last night my partner (M29) mentioned (for the first time in 2 years) that it was annoying and told me to stop when I was singing the tune to The Sims. It’s never bothered him before, why now. He has ADHD so he has ‘quirks’ too but I’ve always shown him patience and he loves that I am so patient with him. I kinda just feel blindsided now and all morning I’ve been trying my hardest to not vocal stim. Maybe he was just tired last night and got overstimulated and took it out on me, or maybe he genuinely doesn’t like when I do it. I can’t really change who I am, nor would I want to. I’ve been with people in the past who I had to change for and I’m not doing it again. I get putting boundaries in place and not being ‘annoying’ when he might be overstimulated, but at the same time I am really struggling to not make the sounds. I am going to end up turning to other things like picking my skin or chewing the inside of my cheeks. Please can someone give me any advice or tips on handling this.