u/thinkerlyn

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What do you find most annoying in online groups?

To me, it's a lack of authenticity. People who suck up to others to gain validation and acceptance don't like to disagree for fear of rejection. Coming from teenagers, I understand perfectly, but I've seen adults acting this way. It's strange, and I understand that it's due to a lack of self-esteem, but even so, when I notice too many people like that in groups, I withdraw.

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u/thinkerlyn — 23 hours ago

Do you feel more introverted than introverts themselves?

Perhaps this is a specific situation or there are different degrees of introversion, but I have certain online friends who might call themselves introverts, yet they spend most of their time in the Discord group chatting with friends, playing games together every night after work, constantly talking, and I find this extremely exhausting, even if it's online.

I know that some of them seem to have a subtle dependence on others and can't stand boredom lately, so they don't do anything alone, and the hours they spend alone are only minimal hours or minutes.

I've seen many people call themselves introverts because of this, and maybe it's just a degree where they enjoy frequent contact? This made me reflect on how much more alone time I have than most people, I end up going days, even weeks without talking to anyone, and I feel more at peace to focus on my things and dedicate myself to my million hobbies lol, I don't feel superior because of it, I'm just curious about how these people have such a stronger social battery than I do.

Do some of you guys feel the same way? I see that some people even introverts, can find isolation unpleasant, or maybe it has the other reasons I spoke about

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u/thinkerlyn — 3 days ago