u/thirdeyedoe

This is more of a rant but I'm hoping to hear positive things from anyone else that went through this.

I'm on my honeymoon in Edinburgh right now. We arrived yesterday (flew from Portland Oregon and had a layover in Seattle and in Heathrow) and both of our checked bags did not follow us. We immediately filed a lost bag claim and later that evening, we saw they found my husband's bag—it was still in Seattle. My husband got his bag earlier today finally, but they do my have any updates on mine...

I'm devastated as this has put a huge damper on our honeymoon. All the clothes I bought for the trip aren't with me. My ipad is in there as well and sadly I did not think to put an air tag in it.

I'm hoping it's in Heathrow and they're just really behind with delayed bags but I'm panicking thinking all my stuff is lost forever. As of 11pm October 5th, the status still shows as "Searching"...

Has anyone else had this happen and how long did it take for your stuff to show up? This has been an absolute nightmare.

Did anyone send reminders to their guests about RSVPing? We set the deadline to RSVP by June 10th so we can confirm the final guest count with our vendors, and more than half of the people we invited still haven't, even those who say they're coming.

I spent so long getting the website perfect, so everything is easy for our guests, but not everyone has looked at the website either. I'm trying not to be stressed by why can't people just read? It takes less than 5 minutes and even less to click a button and say "Yes we're coming!" 😭

Any self-conscious girlies dislike some of their photos? We just got our sneak peeks from our engagement shoot, and I feel like I hate myself in almost every one... The photos themselves are great, it definitely isn't our photographer, and my fiancé is perfect lol It's just me...

I'm also autistic and had never been in front of a camera before, so maybe this is normal to feel this way.. I just wish I felt better, and now I'm worried about seeing me in the wedding photos 😕

Advice?