r/BritishAirways

British Airways just told my severely allergic mother to fly with another airline. Seriously.

I’m posting this because I genuinely cannot believe how British Airways has handled this.

My mother has multiple medically documented, potentially life threatening allergies, including peanuts, tree nuts, fish, shellfish and cow’s milk.

This is not someone saying, “Dairy gives me an upset stomach.”

She carries an EpiPen everywhere she goes.

She has previously suffered anaphylaxis severe enough to require emergency resuscitation.

Her reactions are also not limited to deliberately eating an allergen. Exposure in her immediate environment can trigger a reaction, which obviously becomes rather important when you are trapped inside an aircraft for 9+ hours while meals are being heated and served around you.

And this trip is not a holiday.

She is travelling to Jamaica to visit her 93 year old mother, who has suffered 4 strokes recently.

So when an airline tells her to simply “use another airline”, that is not a minor inconvenience or a case of choosing a different holiday carrier.

We contacted BA Way Way Way BEFORE travelling.

The first BA adviser we spoke to, Jusdeep Singh, was frankly astonishing.

After repeatedly explaining that this needed sorting before the flight, he essentially kept telling us to just tell the cabin crew when we board.

He then told us British Airways had “no duty of care.”

When I asked him repeatedly to tell me exactly where in BA’s policy it said this, he could not.

We then asked for somewhere we could put the matter in writing.

He put us on hold.

He came back and told us there was apparently no such facility.

Except there very obviously is.

We subsequently contacted BA’s Passenger Medical Clearance Unit in writing.

They contacted their Head of Catering Operations and Cabin Crew Services.

And this is where it gets unbelievable.

BA has now confirmed to us that:

Fish and crustaceans are highly likely to be served onboard.

They will not remove or restrict those menu items.

Cabin crew cannot change the meal service.

They can stop serving loose nut snacks, but meals containing nuts can continue to be served.

They cannot provide my mother with a meal they consider suitable because she has too many serious allergies.

Their own lactose free meal cannot be guaranteed free from milk traces, so they removed it from her booking.

She can bring her own food, wipe down her seat and ask for an announcement.

And then came the killer line from BA’s specialist catering advice:

“Given the severity of this customer’s allergies, it would seem that any reasonable accommodations that we can currently make, will not be sufficient for this customer’s safety, and therefore they would be advised to travel with another airline that is able to make all the necessary accommodations they require.”

Read that again.

British Airways’ own specialist team has effectively told a booked passenger:

Our arrangements may not be sufficient to keep you safe. Go and fly with somebody else.

Except “somebody else” is not necessarily a straightforward substitute.

Virgin Atlantic does not fly to Kingston, which is where we need to go.

So BA’s suggestion potentially means changing airports, changing destination, adding hours of ground travel across Jamaica, or restructuring a journey being made so that my mother can visit her 93 year old mother, who has suffered 4 strokes recently.

What is particularly frustrating is that my mother HAS travelled long haul with severe allergies before.

Virgin Atlantic previously made arrangements for her, including adapting what was being served because of the seriousness of her condition.

And here is the other ridiculous part.

We are BA American Express cardholders.

We collect Avios.

We have deliberately put spending and loyalty into the BA ecosystem.

Apparently the reward for that loyalty when you have a passenger with a medically documented life threatening condition is:

“Perhaps travel with another airline.”

And to be clear before somebody replies with “an airline cannot control what passengers bring onboard”:

WE KNOW.

Nobody asked BA to search everyone’s bags for a Snickers.

The question was what BA could reasonably do regarding BA’s own catering and BA’s own meal service, particularly where environmental exposure is a genuine concern for this individual passenger.

That is what makes this so frustrating.

I am actually glad we pushed this instead of accepting the first adviser’s “just tell the crew when you board” response.

Imagine discovering all of this for the first time while standing at the aircraft door with a severely allergic passenger.

At least we now have BA’s position in writing.

But telling a family that your own specialist team believes the accommodations you provide may not sufficiently mitigate the risk, and therefore they should use another airline, raises some fairly obvious questions.

What exactly are we supposed to do with the British Airways booking we have already paid for?

What happens when the alternative airline does not even serve the same destination?

And:

Why should we continue giving British Airways our loyalty, Avios spending and BA Amex business if another airline is prepared to make accommodations BA says it cannot?

For anyone travelling with severe allergies, DO NOT assume this can simply be sorted out with cabin crew after boarding.

Get everything in writing beforehand.

I am very glad we did.

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u/Bubbly-Ad-7832 — 1 day ago

Confused by options for flying with a toddler

I booked a seat for my 15 month old. We planned on using a car seat. After booking, we looked at the fine print and saw the car seat must be 17 inches wide maximum.

We cannot find a car seat that meets this requirement and isn't $200+. The Cosco Next has been discontinued. The Sonus has been discontinued. I tried googling and got results only to learn they are actually 19 inches wide. I tried finding a used seat. No dice.

I then thought about getting a harness. Except you are only allowed to use them if you book in the back row. We didn't and it's now full.

I have no idea why the rep on the phone didn't inform us of this when we asked if we could use a car seat or harness and if there were restrictions. We were just told yes we can and then just told they must forward face.

Has anyone flown recently in the same situation of wanting something to strap your toddler into? What'd you use?

Edit: thank you all for your feedback! I think I'll ditch the car seat, bring my baby carrier for if I need to rock him to sleep while standing, get an approved plane bed, and hope for the best with the lap seat.

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u/Fantastic_Fig_2025 — 1 day ago

BA 0257 LHR to DEL ... Engine trouble ... return to LHR

Flight BA 0257 from LHR to DEL ... 3 hours into the flight they turned around back to LHR due to engine trouble. No idea anything else outside of that with the issue. We were supposed to be immediately swapped into another aircraft and get back on our way but now the flight has been cancelled. Now an overnighter until the AM.

Edit to add : 1) We dumped fuel prior to landing. 2) I wonder if this is the same plane that was having engine work here:

BA257 LHR → DEL (G-ZBJD) delayed by engine maintenance – observations from the gate. Any engineers know what might have happened? : r/BritishAirways

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u/thewhorecat — 1 day ago

BA 213 (LHR-BOS) 2026-08-19 getting increasingly delayed

The scheduled departure of BA 213 today (2026-08-19) was 14:30.

Received a message from BA at 12:58 that the flight was delayed to 15:30 due to “a technical issue with the aircraft”. Then there were two other messages that the departure was further delayed to 16:00 and 17:00. BA also sent a refreshment voucher for GBP 10.00 and a message that “We’re here if you need us.” Flight Aware is reporting a departure of 17:10. Fortunately for us a delay of even six or eight hours won’t be problematic. A delay of more than that or cancellation will cause problems.

This is my first time flying with BA after a long time and I chose this flight because of the equipment (A380) and selected our seats on the upper deck. That excitement is waning a bit with each successive delay. I am a frequent flyer (mostly United) so I am used to such nuisance. My wife and son are not, but are being good sport so far especially as we are seated in a Club World lounge. But that may change if things get worse.

This is meant to be just a narrative; not a complaint.

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u/PassiveOldGuy — 1 day ago

Refund nightmare

This is such a ridiculous long story. I am going to make it as short as possible. I have never posted on Reddit, but I am desperate for someone to do the right thing at British Airways. My travel partner purchased the EXACT same ticket, talk to the EXACT same Agent and got a completely different response. She received a full refund with absolutely no issues.

Timeline of Events January 20, 2026
I purchased a refundable ticket directly from British Airways for $4,986.43 using my credit card. Business class seat. May 26, 2026 On the date I was scheduled to depart, I became medically unable to travel and in the ER and contacted British Airways before my flight. Sent all medical documentation to British Airways.When making a new ticket to fly out a little later, the agent did not apply the value of my existing refundable ticket toward a later departure, I was required to purchase another ticket for $4,210.40, together with an additional $250.00 seat assignment, in order to travel on May 31, 2025. (This was not stated online or by any agent that my ticket was NOW nonrefundable

Prior to my new scheduled flight out on May 31, 2026 departure
My surgeon determined that I was medically unable to travel and specifically advised against flying. Based on that medical advice, I canceled the trip and immediately notified British Airways.

British Airways, even though they have stated that I did in fact buy a full refundable ticket, when I change the date to fly out, it became nonrefundable. My cousin who was flying with me purchased the same ticket and had all of the same exact changes that I had even talking to the same agent- She got a full and complete refund.

I have called British Airways almost once every week since May 31st to get a refund. I have also sent countless emails. I have also requested that my conversations with the agent be released to me. EVERY SINGLE time I call, they state, We will call you back with a resolution in 7 to 10 days. OR, they tell me to fill out some other form to send in. They refuse to refund the ticket. I have reported on Office of Aviation Consumer Protection. I am trying to get my credit card to help me. I am debating on a small claims court as it is a lot of money and honestly, it is just wrong. I bought a refundable ticket. It was confirmed in one of my countless conversations with the airlines, but they are not refunding the entire ticket. They sent $142.00 to me??? Has anyone had this experience and how can I get it resolved? Also, they will not send me any conversations that I know they have recorded as they tell you that the are recording the conversation.

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u/Brownie10-4 — 1 day ago

Day 3 without our hold luggage… what are reasonable claims

Landed on Saturday - among 1000s of other people we didn’t get our bags. It’s now Tuesday afternoon and have received 1 of the 4 bags. What are some reasonable things I can claim for? Going for a weekend away on fri so do need a few things for our baby

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u/swedeee — 1 day ago

I flew BA once nearly 7 years ago

For the love of god I cannot stop these emails from coming to my inbox every couple of months. It’s the only type of email I still receive from them. I’ve tried everything. Please help

Best way to use companion voucher?

I have a companion voucher that I need to use by end of October. I don’t have much leave left so need to use it over a long weekend.

Ideally would like to go somewhere in Europe where I can relax.. anyone got any good suggestions with flight times etc?

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u/BrainGlass6630 — 2 days ago

British Airways are crooks

I purchased a ticket to Scotland. 4 months before my trip I was diagnosed with cancer. Had to cancel my trip. British Airways was the only company who refused to refund me. they would not even give me a credit. Lost 3 grand to them. I will never fly again with them. they are crooks. Even when my attorney contacted them they refused to refund me. 4 months in advance of my trip. never dealt with such a rude and unprofessional company. B.

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u/Gomeboy3 — 1 day ago

Cabin bag exceeding baggage dimensions

I’m flying from Delhi to Manchester via London next month and plan to bring two cabin bags: a backpack and a small suitcase.

The backpack exceeds the cabin baggage dimensions limit by 8.2 cm in width and by 0.24 cm in depth. Would the airline allow it, or they can possibly measure it at the gate?

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u/lilacbloom23 — 1 day ago

Upgrade from Economy Basic to Plus fare for LHR - ARN? Shall I pay it.

I'm looking for extra flexibility

u/SlowedCash — 2 days ago

Avios for international travel

I have 315000 Avios I have saved up and would like to book a flight from US to India next year. It's for the family of 6. What's the best option to use the Avios where I can save max amount of money? Any help is appreciated.

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u/DeerNo1846 — 2 days ago

Short haul upgrade at airport

Morning - we fly in 2 days LHR to Naples, economy for £75 upgrade is being offered for £135.50.

I don’t think the upgrade is worth it currently particularly as we fly at 6.25am so use of the lounge would be limited. But I was going to see at the airport if the price comes down.

It’s my first time considering upgrading at the airport and wondered if you could share your experiences of doing so for short haul? Is it likely the price will come down.

BA have reduced the cabin from 9 to 8 rows and currently appear to have 9 seats available still.

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u/DollyR86 — 3 days ago

Business class from Changi to Sydney - other lounge access?

Bit niche but I thought I'd ask here.

Changi airport - I tried to get into the Qatar lounge a few years ago when I was flying business class with Qantas and was politely declined access. BA welcomed me in and their champers was very nice! This time I'm flying with BA and I was wondering if anyone else had tried and gained access to the Qatar lounge with a business class ticket? Google seems to indicate that it was okay because of the oneworld alliance, but that would have applied last time as well.

Thanks in advance.

Edit - seems I'll be able to get in this time, thanks to everyone who replied.

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u/NurseOgowa — 3 days ago

Free Wi-Fi messaging

Hello,

I will be flying BA shortly and wanting to accrue mileage into my American Airlines account, have entered my AAdvantage number on the itinerary.

If I wish to avail of the free inflight messaging so if I sign up for a BA Club account on-board, will this action replace the AA number I have given for mileage accrual on my itinerary?

EDIT: Thank you for your responses everyone!

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u/9nein — 2 days ago

BA delay caused missed connection - am I eligible for compensation?

I’m flying Boston (BOS) → London Heathrow (LHR) → Istanbul (IST) on one British Airways booking.

My first flight, BA212 BOS-LHR, was delayed several times (4hr 15 min), which means I can no longer make my original connection BA700 LHR-IST.

Original itinerary:

  • BA212: BOS → LHR
  • BA700: LHR 09:00 → IST 15:00

BA has now rebooked my second leg to:

  • BA718: LHR 12:50 → IST 18:55

So my scheduled arrival in Istanbul changes from 15:00 to 18:55, which is 3h55m later.

Assuming I actually arrive around 18:55, would I be entitled to any UK261 compensation? Would this be £260 because it is under 4 hours, and £520 if the actual arrival/door-opening time ends up being 19:00 or later?

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u/bostunyee — 3 days ago

Help!!! What does this mean

does this mean that the luggage was delivered to my address on the 15th (I received no notification of this and have not received it at home) or that it has been delivered to the couriers who will reach out to me and arrange delivery? hoping it’s the latter. thank you

u/sinkingsonder — 3 days ago

Flying from LONDON HEATHROW to JFK NY in September - Taxes, fees and charges?

Hi all!

I am visiting NY from the UK in September, and have booked to fly with BA after having a good experience with them visiting the US a couple of years ago. The "total" on my receipt comes to £737.00, "(incl. taxes, fees and charges)". Slightly lower down on the receipt is a section called "Taxes, fees and charges" which comes to £492.99.

Possibly very stupid question - does that mean the actual flights only came to £244.01, and all of these taxes etc. are paid? Or are these costs extra, and taken at a later date? I understand the "total" on the receipt says "incl. taxes, fees and charges" but I find it hard to believe that the cost of the flights would be so low, and the taxes/fees/charges such a huge portion of the total cost.

But then, I am not a hugely experienced traveller, and am a bit of an idiot.

Thanks!

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u/bristolsquirrel — 3 days ago

Seattle to London to HYD flight in British Airways

r/BritishAirways  - Travelled from SEA to LDN to HYD (up and down) in Aug 2026. For one of the flights (Seattle to London Heathrow) I automatically upgraded to premium economy. Why do they do that, is it random, or the front desk makes the choice? However, the experience is good overall.

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u/iamkarthikkumar — 3 days ago