https://youtu.be/fmBZFTKgC80?si=U9z2u-u\_vO1ZEjXM
listen to what this filthy person has to say on timestamp 59:08 . this is proof that straight mentality and homophobia is going nowhere . anyway we can cancel her ?
what lessons have you girlies learnt over the course of dating and talking to so many saphhic women ?
(just trying to get this sub more active 😭)
i am fed up and simply just fed up of colleges hosting so many speed dating events during fests and fundraisers and all of them are for straight people , all for straight people . even zomato dstrct etc are all straight speed dating events .
why can't we have fun the way straights do ? howcome no one has taken initiative to host any queer speed dating events , shits so sad .
i have always been more femme naturally but i like this bisexual girl who is my senior who has given hints that she is more into masc /butch women . i want to ask if anyone changed from being one way to becoming another way ?
hi i am leaving delhi in 2 months to go abroad for a semester . i really want to connect with queer people from india , i won't get a chance to make such connections abroad . are there any lgbtq+ groups , any societies i can join that organize queer meetups in delhi , i really want to attend one before i leave 😭 . i wish i had a queer friend group that met regularly . please suggest ! thanke !
i have come accross so many profiles that mention wanting a dom or a sub . a women i was talking to told me she wants a bratty sub which i dont even know what that is . i have never seen this much of a dom sub discussion in straight relationships . why can't two people mutually take turns doing both , why such a need to fit into these roles ? i hate people who say things like " oh you're a 100% submissive " just because you're being nice and sweet and not rude back to them or because you're an introvert . why is there so much focus on sexual roles in lesbian dating ? does it irritate anyone else ?
men are allowed to discuss their sexual fantasies , women are allowed to discuss their sexual fantisies , gay men have grindr and bisexuals have options . but what about lesbians . yes i feel horny , yes i have sexual fantasies , yes i fall in love with women who are off limits , i literally felt attracted towards my own sister-in-law at one point , it was so embarassing and shameful for me , i have felt attracted to much much older women , married women , professors and teachers , yes i do stare at random women in the bus or in the metro . no one says a thing when men have their own spaces to discuss these things , no one says a thing when women say they like older men or DILFs or have daddy issues or they write so many erotic fantasy stories about being kidnapped and rotated by BTS members , no one says a thing when women openly talk about their body count or how much they masturbate or when they suggest each other vibrators . all my friends call me and tell me they are feeling horny all the time . no one says a thing when men constantly try to shoot their shots with you .
but as a lesbian i feel i just have to supress everything , just supress everything and meet this moral standard the women have set for themselves where you can never freely discuss your fantasies towards other women , you are seen as a perv even if you mention that you have sexual fantasies about women . women dont want to come near you . men try to treat you like you are fetish content . what is this life ? sex is a biological need but i shouldnt have to feel so much shame for just fantisizing from a distance and wanting to talk about how i long for it too , with the right woman obviously .
how many times have you been rejected , or have you rejected someone ? (men + women) do you think women have a bigger fear of rejection or have a harder time being rejected compared to men ? did the fear of rejection stop you from asking out the right person ? or do you regret asking someone out because they changed after you shot your shot and got rejected ?
have you felt bad or guilty for rejecting someone ? did you ever feel like you used somebody because they were into but you were not into them ? did anyone ever use you and lead you on and then said no to make things official .
share your stories with me please bcz im having a hard time . i want to know how it is on both sides and if people are on the same page as i am about some of this stuff .
i'm not talking about reddit dms or people u matched with on hinge and bumble . like actual people you knew or met irl . what's ur stories ?