I only ever buy yogo mix's on sale and the choc chip one usually, but I'm eating one right now and it tastes garbage. The choc chips taste so like... cheap? like the cheapest compound chocolate you can buy at the reject shop. and the yoghurt is so meh.
Has anyone ever had their MC999 ban reversed or knows anybody who had it reversed?
I'm 20 and have a brother in high school. My mother has been taking care of us our entire life until I got a stable job and was able to contribute to help ease her load, I am also studying a competitive degree which is stressful enough. I don't want to lag this on so to sum it up my father does not contribute financially as he enjoys being unemployed (no bills or rent) or to labour around the house. He has been cheating on her before and after marriage, has physically and verbally abused her, my brother and myself (he still verbally abuses us and attempts to intimidate us but we are bigger and stronger than him now). My brother and I have continuously expressed to her that we do not want him in the house and she needs to game up and kick him out.
He is on the mortgage for our house but he does not pay it and usually lets it become overdue until my mum is forced to pay it. We have evidence of him being on 3 different dating apps, an audio recording of him drunk chasing my mum around threatening to kill her, trying to strike her with my brother screaming in the background for him to stop. There has also been a previous CPS case, police were notified once when I left home due to the violence in high school, and I have case notes with counsellors of incidents when they occurred.
She is trauma bonded to him as he was the first man she ever met at 16 and then eventually married. She is also culturally scared of the repercussions of divorce. He has also worn her down with the abuse as well as her being exhausted from working double shifts almost everyday.
We finally managed to get her to inch towards the idea of a divorce but she is now worried that as she is the primary earner he will be able to claim half of her superannuation. There is also the case that they had sold their house in their country of origin and she waived over her rights to all the money to him as she trusted him at the time to allocate it to her. He blew close to 1 million AUD (said he was repaying debts) and never gave her a penny of that money.
Yesterday my brother told me he was scared to be in this house as our father started to aggressively tried to open a jar with a knife while looking at him. I want to add that he is a charismatic narcissist and very good at twisting things to look different. Today my brother called me while I was at work telling me that our father was dirty talking with another woman over the phone and wishing to meet her but he has no privacy in his house.
From a legal perspective, how can our mum divorce him without him taking off without her superannuation or any of her money, property and our current house? He never acted as a caregiver or stay-at-home husband for my brother or I, she did all the child care and looking after for us. She has paid for almost everything in our lives. Also factoring in that he is abusive.
