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Since a week ago my girlfriend has been having extreme crisises, she went to the hospital but they couldnt let her stay. I suspect it has something to do with two main things.

One is her home and her mother.

The other is medication.

She is supposed to take 150mg of fluvoxamine, 1,5 mg of Delorazepam, 40mg of latuda and 100mg of lamotrigine.

She used to have crisises less often, but lately during crisises, when my girlfriend is too fucked up to react, her mother gives her 3mg of delorazepam and a lot of clotiapine (i dont know how much) without the psychiatrist's input.

I am scared, I dont know whats happening, she's too disassociated to actually tell me what happens during those times. Two days ago she actually had a horrible reaction to the dose of clotiapine. Her psychiatrist treats her horribly and her mother doesnt want her to change it, she just started again talk therapy but because her mother told her to start with diagnostic tests, she is currently focusing on that and her sessions are made up of making tests. She hates the tests because they make her feel like a failure, and her mother tells her she is schizophrenic (which she is not, she has intrusive thoughts), then bipolar, then bpd. Last time she had diagnostic tests they clearly said she was not bpd, but had mdd and is autistic.

I dont know what to do can someone tell me if I'm seeing things wrong? She has been in a depressive episode the past 7 months. How do I help?

Since a week ago my girlfriend has been having extreme crisises, she went to the hospital but they couldnt let her stay. I suspect it has something to do with two main things.

One is her home and her mother.

The other is medication.

She is supposed to take 150mg of fluvoxamine, 1,5 mg of Delorazepam, 40mg of latuda and 100mg of lamotrigine.

She used to have crisises less often, but lately during crisises, when my girlfriend is too fucked up to react, her mother gives her 3mg of delorazepam and a lot of clotiapine (i dont know how much) without the psychiatrist's input.

I am scared, I dont know whats happening, she's too disassociated to actually tell me what happens during those times. Two days ago she actually had a horrible reaction to the dose of clotiapine. Her psychiatrist treats her horribly and her mother doesnt want her to change it, she just started again talk therapy but because her mother told her to start with diagnostic tests, she is currently focusing on that and her sessions are made up of making tests. She hates the tests because they make her feel like a failure, and her mother tells her she is schizophrenic (which she is not, she has intrusive thoughts), then bipolar, then bpd. Last time she had diagnostic tests they clearly said she was not bpd, but had mdd and is autistic.

I dont know what to do can someone tell me if I'm seeing things wrong? She has been in a depressive episode the past 7 months. How do I help?

Hi I'm new to polyamory. I am in a triad where all of us are together (but still open outside our relationship! It's not closed to us) and we have not decided our limits on cheating.

To be specific, me and my girlfriend are allosexual, and our partner is asexual. Our partner says it's fine if me and my girlfriend meet up for sex because it would be uncomfortable to them to share our space while we have sexual stuff going on.

The thing is...Me and my girlfriend do meet up and sometimes we just aren't in the mood to have sex.

Sorry this question sounds stupid as hell but I'm wondering if this goes outside our established boundaries and therefore counts as cheating?

I don't see it as such because consent can vary even in hours, by that point we are already together and would be strange to force sex to stay within a boundary?

Edit: to add context, I started having this doubt because one time my girlfriend and I met up outside for a simple date, and our partner got angry at us