New partner is extremely ticklish
F25
M27
Dating for 2months
Hello people of Reddit!
My new partner is, as the title says, really ticklish. In a way that makes it difficult for me to give him pleasure. No matter where I touch him, it tickles…back, legs, chest, everywhere. It feels like whatever I do, he either doesn‘t really feel it or it tickles. When I use my nails to lightly scratch him it again tickles or hurts.
When giving him a handjob I can‘t do anything but also kiss him bc every other way of touching ruins the pleasure.
He told me that this has always been difficult for him bc it stops the pleasure and therefore he has never really had sex. He tried a few times but he never really got hard or went soft rather fast without finishing. I don‘t wanna try sleeping with him just yet, but I wanna find out how to give him pleasure in the first place.
What can I do? Any ideas?