School costs but not
My ex and I split school costs 60/40 (me being the 60) as part of our agreement because I wanted our two kids to stay in their private school. I have zero issue with that. He signed them up for after school extracurriculars. One at a brick and mortar private business and one in a sports league. Both not affiliated with the public school system or the private school. We have two rules in our contract around extracurriculars and both are specific, 1. Cost is split 50/50 and 2. If not agreed upon it cannot interfere with parenting timeshare.
Well, he didn’t ask me if I was in agreement, just told me when and where to take the kids on my week with zero lead up. I never agreed, wasn’t consulted, and have only been able to take them sporadically because it wasn’t planned in my calendar this summer. I’ve been doing it where I can as to not disappoint my kids.
Now he’s trying to include both of those extracurriculars in our school cost split saying they’re part of the kids education and he wants the 60/40. Besides the fact they’re not part of the kids core learning, private business, and I never agreed to something that cuts into my parenting time, how would yall handle this. Because I’m honestly at a loss at the arrogance and unsure of how to even respond.