I Added Parking Permit for LOT A. Do I Need a Permit or Something?

I added Parking Permit for LOT A. I think it got added to my total bill. I have already paid my first installment. I don't know if parking fees was part of that first installment or not. I paid for parking permit A, next to Mc Donalds. Do I need to get some physical permit from somewhere? What should I do?

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u/tonycliftondev — 2 days ago

US Citizen and Texas Resident Classified as Out of State

My wife is a US citizen since 2008 and a Texas resident since 2008 and she just enrolled in U of H and they classified her as out of state student. They told us to fill some sort of questioners online and one of the documents they need is Residency Proof from other college she went (Lone Star College). We called Lone Star College and they said they don't issue anything like that.

What can I do?

They are charging her out of state $12,000 for 12 credit hours.

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u/tonycliftondev — 1 month ago

Is Node/ExpressJS/Sequelize Not Used As a Backend in the Industry

I have been using Node/ExpressJS/Sequelize and Postgres in my personal projects but I keep hearing online that ExpressJS/Node etc is not being used in the real world for backend development. Is that true?

Is ExpressJS not good enough to be used as a backend?

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u/tonycliftondev — 1 month ago
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Thoughts on TCA for a New Project

I work as an iOS developer in a team of 8 developers. We are starting a brand new greenfield project in a financial sector. Few of our team members suggested that we should use TCA for iOS SwiftUI application. I personally have no experience with TCA.

What are your thoughts and recommendations?

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u/tonycliftondev — 2 months ago

AC Setting for Summer And How to Save on Electricity Bills

Hello,

For a very long time 10+ years I have set the AC setting to 78F. Both upstairs and downstairs. Our house was built in 2000, 3100 sq feet.

78F still feels very hot to me. So, for this summer I am considering 76F.

What do you all set the temp in summer when it is over 100F outside?

Any tips to save on electricity bill (apart from raising the temp)

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago

Property Tax Protest Results

So I hired a company to do my property tax protests. And they gave me the following result.

Original Assessment

$343,371

New Assessment

$310,425

Tax Savings

$536

The company takes %25 of the savings so that would be $133.93.

When I go to the tax overview I see this:

Tax Year Tax Bill
2026 3.85% $6,656
2025 3.37% $6,409
2024 $6,200

So I called them before I thought the tax for 2026 should be lower. They said county has not updated it yet and they will do that in October. Is it safe to assume that my tax bill for 2026 will be 6,656 - 536 = $6120.

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago

Required Minimum Distributions for Multiple Accounts

I have the following tax deferred accounts:

- My Personal Traditional IRA (Vanguard)

- Spouse Personal Traditional IRA (Vanguard)

- Previous Job 401K (Fidelity)

- Current Job 401K Non-Roth Account

- Current Job 401K Roth Account (Current)

- Personal Roth (No RMD)

My question is that with so many different accounts that are tax deferred, how will I be able to manage required minimum distributions in the future.

PS: Personally I would like to move funds from my personal traditional IRA to my personal Roth account but it will incur a HUGE tax.

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago

How do you budget for a vacation?

We are going on a small trip to NY for 1 week. We don't have car rental or hotel expenses (staying with a friend). Total 3 people going. Wife + 2 kids.

Currently, I have added a new checking account for vacations. I have ordered debit card for that account and that is the only debit card my family plan to use for the vacation.

Is that a good practice to have a debit card with some funds and just be careful of overspending?

3 people for 7 days (no car rental, no hotel) I am thinking maybe around $500. I don't know. I don't think they are going to watch any shows or broadway etc. Probably just going to go sight seeing and eating etc.

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago

How much is your grocery + Dining out monthly?

What is your grocery + dining out expenses monthly in Houston?

For a family of 4 or a family of 5.

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago

Having a Hard Time Spending After a Lifetime of Saving

I am 46 years old, married, and have three teenage kids.

My net worth is around $2 million (not including house), spread across my 401(k), individual stocks, and non retirement brokerage accounts.

I have no debt. My house is paid off. My cars are paid off. No student loans or anything like that.

I have always been extremely frugal. I still drive my old 2006 Toyota. I honestly do not care much about cars, but I do love traveling.

The problem is that I have a very hard time spending money on myself and my family.

Even thinking about cashing out some stocks for travel makes me uncomfortable. Spending $10K on a two week trip to another country feels difficult, even though I know I can afford it.

I did not grow up poor, but I worked hard my entire life. During school, I paid my own tuition while working insane hours, sometimes 60 to 80 hours a week. I think that mindset never really left me.

Now I feel like time is moving fast.

There are things I still want to do in life. I want to climb mountains. I want to travel around the world. I want to experience life while I still have the energy and health to fully enjoy it.

But at the same time, it is incredibly hard for me to let go and spend the results of decades of hard work.

Part of me keeps asking:
“What if I need it later?”

But another part of me keeps asking:
“If not now, then when?”

I do not even know exactly what I am trying to say. Maybe I am just struggling with the idea of finally allowing myself to enjoy the life I spent decades building.

PS: My wife will be attending school next year so that will also cost a hefty amount.

UPDATE: I do want to mention that we (family) do go for couple of vacations each year. But most or all of them are in US or other less expensive countries. Like our family has never been to Europe together or Japan or any of those expensive tickets. I look at ticket prices which is sometimes $5K (just for tickets) and then I think maybe next year. For travel in US we go few times a year.

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u/tonycliftondev — 3 months ago