Redolent is mostly a memory word now, and it is not the only one in the smell family that drifted

Redolent is mostly a memory word now, and it is not the only one in the smell family that drifted

**redolent** (adj.) — smelling strongly of something, or, far more often now, strongly suggestive of it.

The second sense is the one you actually meet. "A room redolent of pipe smoke" is fine, but most of the time you will see "redolent of the 1970s", "redolent of empire", where nothing is being smelled at all. The word kept the shape of a smell and dropped the nose.

That is also why it fails as a swap for fragrant. Fragrant is a verdict: the smell is nice. Redolent is a pointer, and it needs its *of*. Something is always redolent **of** something else, and without that complement it dangles. "The kitchen was redolent" reads like a sentence that got cut off.

Two others in the family are worth knowing about.

**Poignant** and **pungent** are the same word underneath. Both come from Latin *pungere*, "to prick, pierce, sting", from PIE *peuk-*. The part I did not expect: poignant did not drift slowly from physical to emotional. Etymonline has it entering English in the late 14th century already applied to sauces, spices, wines and feelings all at once. The taste sense then died and the emotional one survived. It did not move house, half of it was demolished.

**Noisome** is the trap. It has nothing to do with noise. It comes from Middle English *noye*, "harm, misfortune", a shortened form of *anoi*, which is also the ancestor of *annoy*. A noisome smell is an annoying one, and historically a harmful one. Etymonline notes that confusion with *annoy* and similar-looking words had already set in.

The other two on the card round it out. Ambrosial is borrowed from taste, since ambrosia was the food of the gods, and petrichor is the only one that names a particular smell instead of describing one.

Looking at the six together, what strikes me is how leaky this family is. More of these words have ended up doing memory, emotion or metaphor than stayed with the nose. Smell is supposed to be the sense most tied to memory, and the vocabulary seems to have followed it out the door.

u/trilliwon — 2 days ago

querulous: habitually complaining. A cousin of "quarrel", and no relation to "query".

**querulous** (adj.), first attested c. 1400: given to complaining, habitually peevish in tone.

It arrives through Late Latin *querulosus*, from Latin *querulus*, from *queri*, "to complain." Etymonline takes that back to Proto-Italic *kwese-, and raises the possibility of a PIE root meaning "to hiss." That last step is offered as a maybe rather than a finding, and I would keep the hedge, but I like it more than I should. Complaint as a sound before it was ever a stance.

The cousin is the part that got me. *Quarrel* comes from the same *queri*, by way of Old French *querele* and Latin *querella*, "a complaint." Etymonline notes that querulous "retains the original vowel of quarrel," which makes the ornate word the conservative one and the everyday word the worn-down one. Somewhere along the way a complaint hardened into a fight and kept the name.

The word it is NOT related to is *query*. That one is *quaerere*, "to seek, to ask," from the PIE interrogative stem. Four shared letters, entirely different family. Asking and complaining resemble each other only in English spelling.

Here is the part I cannot settle. Every English adjective I can find for "given to complaining" is a put-down: querulous, peevish, petulant, fractious, whiny, cantankerous, grumbling. The vocabulary has decided in advance that the person complaining is the problem.

*Plaintive* is the nearest sympathetic term, but it describes a sound or an expression rather than a disposition. A plaintive cry, not a plaintive person. *Aggrieved* does take the complainer's side, though it is legal in flavour and points at one specific grievance rather than a habit.

So is there an English adjective meaning "inclined to complain" that does not sneer? Or does the language simply have no neutral slot for someone who complains a lot?

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u/trilliwon — 2 days ago
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Six words for how a sound lands, and the praise half is built differently from the complaint half

I was collecting adjectives for sound quality and noticed the two halves are not built the same way.

The approving ones describe **texture**. Mellifluous is smooth and honey-flowing, sonorous is deep and rich, euphonious is just plainly pleasant to hear. None of them tell you how loud anything was. You can be mellifluous at a whisper.

The complaining ones mostly describe **volume**. Strident is harsh and loud. Raucous is loud and rowdy. Shrill is loud and high and painful. Take the loudness out of those three and there is not much left of them.

So the vocabulary is lopsided in an odd way. English gives me a fine set of words for a sound that is nice regardless of how loud it is, and mostly words for a sound that is unpleasant *because* it is loud.

Which leaves a gap I keep failing to fill. What is the word for a sound that is quiet and still unpleasant? Not painful, not intrusive, just wrong in some way at low volume. Grating is close but it implies friction. Insidious is about the effect, not the sound. Reedy and nasal get at a specific timbre but only for voices.

Is there a general one I am missing, or does English genuinely make you say it in a phrase?

u/trilliwon — 4 days ago

If you can argue it two ways it is ambiguous, not nebulous

These four get swapped for each other constantly, and they are complaints about four different things.

**Ambiguous** means there are two or more definite readings and you cannot tell which is intended. The problem is a fork in the road. A lawyer can argue an ambiguous clause both ways, which is exactly what makes it dangerous.

**Nebulous** means there is no definite reading to find. Not two, none. It comes from Latin nebula, mist, and the image holds up: you are not choosing between paths, you are looking at fog. A nebulous clause cannot be argued either way, because nobody can say what it claims in the first place.

That is the distinction people lose, and losing it costs you something. Ambiguous is too much meaning; nebulous is not enough. Calling a foggy proposal ambiguous accidentally flatters it, because you have just said it contains readings you need to choose between.

**Obscure** is the third. Obscure means there IS a definite meaning and it is hidden, whether by difficulty, jargon or bad writing. An obscure passage rewards effort. A nebulous one does not, because there is nothing behind it to reach.

**Vague** is the plain word for the whole area and often the better choice. The line I would defend is that vague can describe a person being deliberately non-committal, while nebulous describes the thing itself having no edges. A politician gives a vague answer. The policy behind it is nebulous.

One practical note. Nebulous earns its keep in writing about plans, strategies and concepts, where the complaint is that nothing has actually been specified. It reads as pretentious when aimed at something that is merely not clear to you yet, which is obscure, or at something you simply dislike, which is neither.

u/trilliwon — 1 day ago

Ineffable and unspeakable are the same idea pointed in opposite directions

All six of these make roughly the same literal claim: cannot be put into words. What separates them is not the meaning, it is what you are signalling by picking one.

**ineffable** — too great, too sacred, or too beautiful for language. This is the positive one. The Latin is ineffabilis, in- "not" plus effabilis "speakable", from effari, "to speak out." That fari root is the same one sitting inside infant: an in-fans is literally one who does not speak.

**unspeakable** — the identical claim, dragged almost entirely negative. Unspeakable cruelty, unspeakable acts. You can still find "joy unspeakable" in older religious English, and to a modern ear it reads as archaic, because the word now carries taboo rather than excess.

**indescribable** — the neutral workhorse. Honestly, this is the one people reach for when they have decided not to describe something. It makes no claim about why.

**inexpressible** — puts the failure in the speaker rather than in the thing. An inexpressible feeling is one I cannot get out. An ineffable one is one language itself cannot hold. Small difference, but a real one.

**unutterable** and **unnameable** have gone mostly literary. The second has drifted toward the uncanny, helped along by Lovecraft's story and Beckett's novel, both of which spell it "The Unnamable" — the single-e spelling is the commoner one in print.

The usage trap is that ineffable is not a fancy synonym for indescribable. Aim it at something unpleasant and you will get a raised eyebrow, because the word spent most of its life in theology describing things too holy to name. "Ineffable stench" parses fine and lands as a joke.

u/trilliwon — 5 days ago

inchoate: just begun, not yet fully formed. The likely image underneath is a plough being hitched.

inchoate (adj.), /ɪnˈkoʊ.ət/ — just begun; only partly in existence; not yet fully formed.

Etymonline dates that sense to the 1530s. The Latin is inchoatus, from inchoare, itself an alteration of an older incohare. Here is the part I like, with the caveat that the trail is not solid: the traditional derivation takes incohare back to cohum, the strap that fastened a plough-beam to an ox yoke. De Vaan's reading is that "to yoke a plough to a team of oxen" slid naturally into "to start work." Etymonline allows a core of truth in that ancient connection while noting that cohum itself is of obscure origin, so this is the probable story rather than a settled one.

I like it anyway, because it puts something physical under a very abstract word. An inchoate plan is not a vague cloud of intention. It is a plough with the animals just being tied on.

Two practical notes. The ch is a hard k, so it is in-KOH-ut, and the -ch- spelling is the later form; the classical shape was incohare.

And it does not mean chaotic, which is the usual misfire. Inchoate says early, not disordered. The cleanest place to see that is law, where an inchoate offence is a real technical category: an attempt, a conspiracy, a crime begun and not completed. Nothing messy about it. Just unfinished.

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u/trilliwon — 5 days ago

Word of the day: effusive

Effusive comes from Latin effundere, to pour out, from ex (out) plus fundere (to pour). What surprised me is where it starts. Etymonline dates it to the 1660s meaning "flowing profusely," and specifically of words. So it was never about liquids first. It was about someone talking too much, right from the beginning. The sense we actually use now, an extravagant display of feeling, does not show up until 1863. Two centuries sit between "he says a lot" and "he is performing," and that second turn is why effusive praise reads as faintly suspect today. You can be effusive and completely sincere. The word just won't back you up. The literal sense never died either, it moved house: volcanologists call an eruption effusive when the lava flows out instead of blowing up, and that is the one corner of English where the word still means pouring and nothing else.

u/trilliwon — 6 days ago

Alacrity and allegro are the same word, and allegro is the better definition

If you have ever seen allegro on sheet music, you already know what alacrity means. Etymonline dates the musical term to 1721, from Italian allegro, "brisk, sprightly, cheerful," from Latin alacrem. Alacrity arrived earlier, mid-15c., from alacritatem, "liveliness, ardor, eagerness," off the same adjective alacer. Same word, two routes into English. I did not connect them until I looked it up, and now allegro is the definition I actually use.

Because allegro does not mean fast. A metronome number tells you fast. Allegro tells you fast and cheerful about it, which is why a conductor will stop an orchestra that is playing the correct tempo and still not playing allegro.

Alacrity carries both halves too, and the second one is what English speakers drop. It gets used as a well-dressed substitute for promptly: "he replied with alacrity." If he replied quickly but grudgingly, that sentence is wrong. The word is not measuring speed, it is measuring willing speed. You cannot do something resentfully with alacrity, and someone who obeys with alacrity is telling you about their attitude, not their reaction time.

That is also what separates it from the words it gets swapped with. Promptness is speed with no attitude attached. Eagerness is attitude with no speed. Readiness is the closest of the three and it still sits there without moving. Alacrity insists on both at once, which is a surprisingly narrow thing to ask of a word.

One practical note. It barely leaves a single construction. Almost always "with alacrity," occasionally "the alacrity with which." You will run into alacritous eventually, and it reads like someone enjoying their own vocabulary.

Worth flagging that the trail stops short of the root. Etymonline calls the origin of alacer itself uncertain and mentions a possible Germanic relative in Old English ellen, "courage, zeal, strength," without committing to it.

u/trilliwon — 6 days ago

Why does "abstruse" (= hard to understand) come from a verb meaning "to shove"?

Abstruse sounds like a word about complexity. The Latin says it is a word about distance. Etymonline dates it to the 1590s and glosses that first English sense as "remote from comprehension," from Latin abstrusus, "hidden, concealed," the past participle of abstrudere, which literally means to thrust away. The root is trudere, to thrust or push. So the picture underneath the word is physical: someone took the thing and shoved it out of sight. What I find satisfying is the sibling. Intrudere is the same verb with the opposite prefix, pushing in rather than away, and intrude never left the physical world at all. You still intrude on a conversation, bodily, in actual space. Abstruse went the other direction and gave up the body entirely, since nothing is abstruse in the sense of being far off in a field somewhere. Same push, two prefixes, and only one of them stayed literal. The old spatial sense has not quite drained out though, and that is the part worth keeping, because it tells you where the word puts the difficulty. Calling a subject abstruse says the thing has been placed out of reach. It does not say the reader is slow.

u/trilliwon — 7 days ago

Why does "intransigent" (= refusing to compromise) come from the name of a Spanish political party?

Most words reach English through trade or scripture. This one came through a parliament. Etymonline dates intransigent to 1874, from French intransigeant, and behind the French sits Spanish los intransigentes, the name for the extreme left in the Spanish Cortes and the hard-line republicans of the 1870s. It began as a nickname for particular people in a particular room. English kept the temperament and let the party go. What I like is the verb underneath it. Latin transigere means to come to an agreement, to carry something through to a settlement, and it is the same verb sitting inside transaction. So an intransigent person is not just stubborn in general; the word says they will not complete the deal. Break transigere down and you get trans plus agere, drive across, which is a good picture of what a settlement is: a thing you drive from one side over to the other. Intransigent names the person standing in the road. Stubborn is a temperament you can have alone in a room. Intransigent needs someone on the other side of the table.

u/trilliwon — 8 days ago
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'winsome' fell out of standard English and came back through Scottish poetry

winsome is older than it looks. Old English had wynsum, built from wynn (pleasure, delight) and the same -sum that ends handsome, and in Middle English winsom covered a lot more ground than it does now: pleasing to the senses, gracious, agreeable.

Then it mostly stopped. Etymonline has it going infrequent from late Middle English and surviving in northern English dialect for roughly four hundred years, which is a long stretch for a word to stay alive completely out of sight. It came back in the 18th century, pulled into standard English by Hamilton, Burns and other Scottish poets, and the sense it returned with was narrower than the one it left with: pleasing or attractive in appearance. So the word most of us use is the revival, not the original, which might be why it still sounds faintly literary.

What I can't work out is where the narrowing happened. Did those four centuries of northern usage already shrink it toward "nice-looking", so the poets were just writing down what they inherited? Or did the poets do the narrowing themselves in the act of bringing it back? Etymonline dates the revival and gives the revived sense but doesn't say which way that ran, and I genuinely don't know what you'd read to settle it. If anyone knows whether there's dialect evidence from the gap years, I'd like to see it.

u/trilliwon — 15 hours ago

Why does "trenchant" (= incisive) share a root with a dinner plate?

trenchant arrived in English in the late 14th century meaning simply cutting or sharp, the sort of thing you could say about a blade. The sense we actually reach for now, penetrating or incisive, is not attested until around 1600, and the odd part is which of the two died: nobody calls a knife trenchant today, and if you did it would land as a joke. Its sibling went the other way entirely. A trencher, from the same Old French trenchier meaning to cut, is the wooden platter you carve meat on, and before the wooden version it was a slice of stale bread pressed into service as a plate, with trencher-bread recorded by the early 15th century. Same root, and English kept the literal cutting in the dinnerware while letting the adjective drift off into pure abstraction. Etymonline runs trenchier back to a Vulgar Latin form trincare, from Latin truncare, to maim or cut off, but marks that chain as uncertain, which I rather like: the word for incisive turns out to have a blurry pedigree.

u/trilliwon — 10 days ago

Nobody is born erudite, and the Latin makes that literal

Most people reach for erudite when they want a weightier way of saying intelligent. It is not one, and the etymology splits the two unusually cleanly.

Erudite arrived in English in the early 15th century meaning "learned, well-instructed." It comes from Latin eruditus, the past participle of erudire, "to educate, teach, instruct, polish." That verb is ex-, "out," attached to rudis, "unskilled, rough, unlearned." So the literal sense is to bring someone out of the rough. To take the raw off them.

Now notice that erudire is transitive. It is something done to a person, over years, by teachers and books and time. Erudition is acquired by definition. You can be born intelligent. Nobody has ever been born erudite.

That is the whole usage distinction, and it is why intelligent is the one nearby word that is not a synonym at all. Intelligence is capacity. Erudition is inventory. A quick thinker who has read nothing does not qualify; a slow careful reader with forty years of books behind them does.

The words that genuinely sit nearby:

- learned is the closest and the plainest. It also attaches to things rather than only people, which erudite resists. A learned journal, not an erudite one. - scholarly is about method. It describes how someone works, and it can describe the work itself. Erudite describes what someone has accumulated. - well-read is the everyday version of the same idea, minus any suggestion that it went deep.

The noun has a small drift of its own that props all this up. Erudition turns up around 1400 meaning "instruction, education," the process itself. By the 1520s it had shifted to "learning, scholarship," the residue the process leaves behind. The word slid from the teaching to what the teaching deposits.

What I like about it is that the compliment comes with a receipt. Call someone erudite and you are crediting the hours, not the wiring.

u/trilliwon — 10 days ago
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You can call yourself whimsical. You can't call yourself capricious.

Whimsical is a word people will happily apply to themselves. Capricious isn't. I spent a while trying to find a counterexample and everything I turned up was either a joke or self-deprecation with the quotation marks audible.

Best guess is that it's about who absorbs the cost. Capricious needs someone downstream of it. Weather is capricious. A landlord is capricious. Whimsical costs nobody anything, which is probably why you're allowed to claim it.

The odd part is that the two words started out much nearer each other than that. Etymonline's earliest English sense for capricious, 1590s, is just "humorous"; the "apt to change the mind suddenly, fickle" reading doesn't show up until around 1600. I'm taking that "humorous" as the old governed-by-the-humours sense and not "funny", though I'd happily be corrected.

And it kept hardening, all the way into statute. Under 5 U.S.C. 706(2)(A) a court can set aside agency action found to be "arbitrary, capricious, an abuse of discretion, or otherwise not in accordance with law". Even there, in about the driest prose the language produces, it's still aimed up a power gradient: court to agency, never the reverse.

The etymology is no help, incidentally. Etymonline calls capriccio's origin uncertain and lists both of the stories you usually hear, the goat and the hedgehog, as 19th century guesses.

So, two things. Can anyone give me a first-person capricious that isn't ironic? And if not, is there a name for adjectives that only work pointed at someone with power over you? Pretentious and condescending feel like they're in the same family, but I genuinely don't know if that's a described class or just three words I've noticed and joined up.

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u/trilliwon — 11 days ago

'Fastidious' can be praise or complaint, and the noun after it decides which

A fastidious craftsman is being praised. A fastidious eater is being complained about. The definition does not change between those two sentences, and neither does the speaker's attitude. The noun does all the work.

That instability is not sloppy modern usage. It is the word's history sitting in plain sight.

Fastidious entered English in the mid-15th century meaning "full of pride," which is a fair distance from where it sits now. By the 1610s the dominant sense was "squeamish, over-nice." The Latin behind it is fastidium, loathing or aversion, and Etymonline suggests that word is itself a compound of fastus, contempt or arrogance, and taedium, disgust. That compound is offered as likely rather than settled, and the deeper root of fastus is marked uncertain, so it is not something to assert flatly.

Either way the raw material is revulsion, not care. The sense people put on a résumé, exacting about detail, is the newest layer and by far the mildest. The older resident is disgust.

Which is why the sting is still available. When someone calls you fastidious and it lands wrong, you have not misheard it and they have not misused it. That is the fifteenth century showing through.

Two lines that keep it straight in practice:

- Fastidious is a standard you apply to yourself and your own work. Pedantic is a standard you impose on someone else's. That is the cleanest boundary between the two. - Fastidious is not meticulous. Meticulous is neutral to positive about method. Fastidious always keeps open the possibility that the standard is a little too high.

The picky-eater sense never actually left, either. Microbiology calls an organism fastidious when it will only grow on a medium containing specific nutrients. Neisseria gonorrhoeae needs blood or hemoglobin plus particular amino acids and vitamins before it will do anything at all. A bacterium that refuses ordinary food, described with a word built for people who refuse ordinary food. There is something quietly funny about a word assembled out of contempt and nausea ending up as a compliment for cabinetmakers.

Definition, for the record: fastidious (adj.), very attentive to accuracy and detail; also hard to please, especially in matters of cleanliness or taste.

u/trilliwon — 11 days ago
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obsequious and obsequies look like relatives, and the resemblance is partly a medieval mix-up

Obsequious parses cleanly enough. Latin obsequium, dutiful service, from ob- (after) plus sequi (to follow). Following after someone. It entered English in the late 15th century meaning prompt to serve, compliant, dutiful, with no sneer in it at all.

Then there is obsequies, the funeral rites, which arrived about a century earlier and sits there looking like an obvious cousin.

The connection is real but messier than it looks. Etymonline traces obsequies to Medieval Latin obsequiae, and notes that the form was influenced by a confusion of obsequium with exsequiae, which was the actual Latin word for funeral rites. Exsequiae is ex- plus sequi, following out, as in the procession that follows the body out of the house. So the two English words resemble each other partly because medieval scribes ran two similar Latin words together. Not clean shared descent. A blur.

I like that better than a tidy answer would have been. And the prefix turns out to be carrying the whole distinction: following after a patron, following out a coffin.

The sneer in obsequious arrives by the 1590s, which is when it stops meaning dutiful and starts meaning too dutiful. That decade keeps turning up for me. Pedant made the same trip in the same years, schoolmaster to insult. I cannot tell whether that clustering is real or just an artifact of which texts happen to be well dated and well read, and I would take a reading recommendation if anyone has one.

u/trilliwon — 1 day ago

Why does "magnanimous" (= gracious in victory) start out meaning "brave"?

The modern sense is about not gloating. You are magnanimous when you have won and decline to grind it in. So it is a small surprise that when the word entered English in the 1580s it meant nobly brave or valiant, with nothing about forgiveness in it at all.

The shift was quick. Etymonline puts the modern sense, elevated in soul and superior to petty resentments, at the 1590s. Roughly a decade to get from courage on a battlefield to restraint after one.

I suspect that martial residue is why the word still sits oddly in certain sentences. Magnanimous in victory goes down without a thought. Magnanimous in defeat is perfectly grammatical and almost nobody says it, because the word quietly assumes you are the one holding the advantage. Generosity from underneath goes by other names.

The Latin behind it is magnanimus, great-souled, which is the sort of literal parse that sounds like it explains everything and on inspection explains very little. Great-souled fits the brave sense and the forgiving sense equally well. That is presumably how one slid into the other without anyone having to decide.

u/trilliwon — 12 days ago

What makes something pedantic isn't the detail, it's whether the detail mattered

Pedantic gets used as a synonym for precise, and that is the misreading worth fixing. Precision is not what the word objects to. Proportion is.

The dictionary sense is unusually explicit about it. To be pedantic is to lay undue stress on trifles as compared with large matters or general principles. The complaint is not that you attended to a detail. It is that you attended to that detail instead of the thing that actually mattered.

Which is why the same act can be pedantic on Monday and perfectly reasonable on Tuesday. Correcting "less" to "fewer" in a contract is diligence. Doing it in a text message about lunch is pedantry. Nothing about the correction changed. The stakes did.

That also sorts the near-synonyms, which get swapped around far too freely. Meticulous is about care, and it is a compliment. Punctilious is about observing correct form, and sits roughly neutral, a little stiff. Pedantic is the only one of the three that is always an accusation, and what it accuses you of is misjudging what was worth the attention.

The history has some bite to it. When pedant entered English in the 1580s it simply meant schoolmaster, with no insult attached, from French pédant or Italian pedante. By the 1590s it had the modern sting. Etymonline marks the ultimate origin as uncertain, apparently an alteration of Late Latin paedagogantem, so I would not lean on the deeper derivation. The English stretch is clear enough on its own: roughly a decade for a job title to become a character flaw, which says something fairly bleak about how the job was regarded.

I will admit this is a hard word to use honestly. Most people who reach for it, myself included on a bad day, are defending an imprecision they would rather not defend on the merits.

u/trilliwon — 12 days ago
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Four words for a flatterer, and the oldest one didn't mean flatterer at all

English is unusually well stocked here. Sycophant, toady, lickspittle, bootlicker: four words for roughly the same behaviour, and they are nowhere near interchangeable. They sit on a ladder of contempt.

Bootlicker is the plainest, and the only one of the four you could say out loud at work. Lickspittle is worse and sounds Victorian, largely because it is. Toady is nastier than it looks: it shortens toad-eater, the charlatan's assistant who pretended to swallow a poisonous toad so his master could publicly "cure" him. Sycophant is the one that still sounds respectable, which is why it survives in print where the others read as insults.

That respectability hides the strangest history of the set. When sycophant entered English in the 1530s it did not mean flatterer at all. It meant informer, talebearer, slanderer. The flatterer sense only shows up around the 1570s, and the original one is now completely dead.

Then there is the fig. Greek sykophantes parses literally as "one who shows the fig", from sykon plus phainein. You will constantly see this explained as an informer who denounced illegal fig exports out of Athens. Etymonline says plainly that this cannot be substantiated, and I would file it as folk etymology that got repeated until it acquired the tone of fact. The likelier reading is that "showing the fig" was an obscene gesture, but why that came to mean informer is guesswork even in the good sources.

The bit I cannot work out is why the informer sense vanished so cleanly. Slandering someone and flattering them are not the same job, and English usually keeps both senses around for a while when a word shifts. Did the flatterer sense simply out-compete it, or is there a connection between the two that I am failing to see?

u/trilliwon — 13 days ago

Word of the day: equanimity

The "equ-" here is not the one people reach for. It is not equal in the sense of same. Latin aequus means even, level, flat, and equanimity is aequus plus animus, mind. A mind that stays level, the way water does.

That distinction sounds pedantic until you notice the two different pictures it produces. "Treating everything equally" is a policy. "A surface that does not tip" is what the thing feels like from the inside, and I am fairly sure the second is what people are reaching for when they use the word.

The misreading has a real ancestor, though. When equanimity arrived in English around 1600, by way of French, it meant fairness or impartiality, which is exactly what the "equal" reading suggests. Evenness of temper only takes over in the 1610s, and the older sense quietly drops out. So the wrong parse is an old right one that lost.

The Latin carried a third sense we abandoned completely. Aequanimitas could also mean good-will or kindness. That one never made the crossing at all.

u/trilliwon — 13 days ago