u/tysm_mvp

The pictures of the crowd look a lil insane, shouldn't they have predicted this?? It's not like the show was a small show

Is there a reason for this??

I don't know if I like it cuz of the curls or cuz of him, I do have the similar skintone so I keep thinking I can pull it off( very delusional I know!!)

3yoe and 1.5 gap , honestly so tired of living, don't want a job or don't want to get married, just wish I could pass away

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Parents are not happy I've quit the job and not happy that I don't want to marry and definitely not happy about me being unemployed

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I know if I get married I won't be happy cuz I need someone who is easy going and not an angry man like in this house and I don't do pujas and wake up late ,eat non veg which is a big no no and def my future mil will hate me lol

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Higher education option is there but i don't know if ill get in good one and don't know if I wanna do an mba or masters cuz they are huge loans and I'm unsure if I can pay up the loan and if I can't it's worse than my current situation, I don't want a coding job again ahhh and with this much gap I don't think I can get one gain tbh

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25 is not supposed to feel this old!! I wish I was from a rich family so I can not worry about loans but this is just me bitching

Most people of this sub just say get a job as if working women don't get abused ,harrased and all the awful things, you need courage to get out when situation is bad, now someone will come and say with what money??(if without a job) I get it but if you gonna stay, you're probably going to be die , so take whatever gold you have and money you have and get out!!

I know women who didn't have job but were courageous to get out and women who had job but still staying in abusive marriage

If you're parents are educated (I'm not talking about literate) they'll support you if not go to friends or run away( even if it sounds like I'm quoting movies) anything is better than being deceased(killed to be proper) imo, everyone's situation is different some will have kids but we've seen news of every crime so do what you will( even kids are getting killed)

Edit: I feel like I need to say this before every comment is about this, I'm always for women having good paying jobs, having a job helps but if you don't have courage to get out how does it actually help??

Please read it again before commenting "but having money helps you" I never said it doesn't????all I said is you need more than money to get out of bad situation, literally the first sentence is " as if working women don't get abused"

Disclaimer: I'll say this is a joint family setup and no they are not being tied up in home , they can leave if they want , they are choosing to stay and no indian parent will ever kick their child out and my brother is supporting my sil , no one hates her . also bad grammer and typos cuz we cant use ai all the time and autocorrect sometimes gives up on you

Sil doesn't like most things at our home, our house ,the water, we drink, the milk, groceries we get, food mom makes, or snacks I make, and says they do it better at their home and she doesn't like ours, I mean it even the juice I make get suggestions on how they do it better , she is cooking rn cuz she said she doesn't like the food mom and I make , I understand she's from different home and only likes their food cuz she spent decades there but its kind of hard not to feel sad that she hates every food that is in home, I'm trying to make my mom understand it too, this is not just in food

I still ask if she'll eat anything I make even tho I know answer is going to be no , mom is not liking all the changes and going overthinking mode all the time. I kind of need to defend my mom here she actually doesn't stop any choices they make, they still live their own life like they want, she tells my brother to make financially good choices so theyll have money for the baby, she's just sad that everything in her house is changing and everything she makes is being criticized, she already comprimises a lot cuz of dad, if she vents to dad he just shouts and her depression gets worse, I had to start her medicines again

I quit my job and moved back home and I'm kind of getting tired by playing the therapist and being a translator of what they actually mean when they are shouting In my bloody ears, plus I did win the genetic lottery and have the depression my mom has, i hate joint families never thought i'd be in one in my own family