u/ummm9234

I Am 23 year old femme and objectively good looking but none of the mascs in my area (Boston) want me. I be liking first on hinge and they don’t like me back, I go to the gay clubs and bars no motion, and I be initiating sometimes and still nothing. What do I do? Don’t know if it’s my area or if I’m just not typically the type of people in my area (I’m black) but am feeling very sad and discouraged that I’ll ever find my person. Also makes me wonder if I’m actually ugly but get told constantly how beautiful I am by friends and strangers. Any advice or words of encouragement would be awesome during this time 😔

I Am 23 year old femme and objectively good looking but none of the mascs in my area (Boston) want me. I be liking first on hinge and they don’t like me back, I go to the gay clubs and bars no motion, and I be initiating sometimes and still nothing. What do I do? Don’t know if it’s my area or if I’m just not typically the type of people in my area (I’m black) but am feeling very sad and discouraged that I’ll ever find my person. Also makes me wonder if I’m actually ugly but get told constantly how beautiful I am by friends and strangers. Any advice or words of encouragement would be awesome during this time 😔

Edit: drop your Etsy witches, I’m bout to ask for a spell so a gorgeous soft masc falls in love with me on sight

Lmk your experiences with HER dating app. Trying to use it to find a relationship. On hinge but don’t like my pick. Idk if I’m just shooting way above my league but the ppl I like usually don’t like me back but I don’t like the people that usually heart me. So want to expand my options.

Lmk your experiences with HER dating app. Trying to use it to find a relationship. On hinge but don’t like my pick. Idk if I’m just shooting way above my league but the ppl I like usually don’t like me back but I don’t like the people that usually heart me. So want to expand my options.

I am a femme lesbian and have been told so many times I don’t look like a lesbian. I rly like my style and it’s how I feel most comfortable and don’t want to change. I’m really into mascs especially studs. I’m kind of afraid of rejection so I like to be approached to be sure the person likes me. I get a lot of looks at bars, clubs, and at school but am absolutely never approached. I have been single since 17 Im now 23 and it’s starting to get to me. Should I get over my fear of rejection and start making first moves, especially since most people assume I am bisexual or straight?