u/undermatress

Does anyone here have experience with BPD?

Need some advice please. My gf has bpd in a way where she really really can't handle her emotions they're always so heightened she's always either really happy with me or really pissed off at me. Recently she quit Abilify cold turkey and since then it has been hell. she will crash out on me for something as simple as like saying oh i want this not that and i get yelled at and broken up for it. I would get blocked and broken up with truly everyday. she's always mad at me and I don't understand why. I don't know what to do she's on a new med now. Does it get better? I don't know if I can keep putting up with this. Like she'll be in the wrong saying mean horrible shit and i'm the one comforting her and I don't know what to do anymore. Please can someone let me know if it gets better someone who's had similar experiences..

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u/undermatress — 4 hours ago
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My gf has BPD

Need some advice please. My gf has bpd in a way where she really really can't handle her emotions they're always so heightened she's always either really happy with me or really pissed off at me. Recently she quit Abilify cold turkey and since then it has been hell. she will crash out on me for something as simple as like saying oh i want this not that and i get yelled at and broken up for it. I would get blocked and broken up with truly everyday. she's always mad at me and I don't understand why. I don't know what to do she's on a new med now, does it get better? I don't know if I can keep putting up with this. Like she'll be in the wrong saying mean horrible shit and i'm the one comforting her and I don't know what to do anymore. Please can someone let me know if it gets better.

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u/undermatress — 4 hours ago

is this normal

So my gf really likes using the strap but idk it makes me uncomfortable and like a little triggered because she only has had a past with men. I want to be able to do what she likes any recommendations?

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u/undermatress — 18 days ago