u/undzabudza

The past two years have been emotionally difficult. I won’t lie about that. I’m going to therapy and trying different therapeutic approaches, but I still feel the same. And by getting deeper into psychology and reading different self-help books, I’ve realized that I don’t have healthy relationships with other people.

I don’t really have any close friendships anymore because I’ve been disappointed by people, and now I’m also able to recognize different patterns, such as mind games and manipulation. And that makes me feel very lonely, because it feels like there are so few genuinely kind and honest people.

Let's start with the fact that he's been dating a girl for 1.5 years- I found out about it recently, and none of my colleagues knew about it either, because he's a very quiet, reserved person. But ever since last April, he’s been really obsessed with me. I even decided not to talk to him because our coworkers started teasing us. He stares at me, tries to be physically close to me, and once he even got really jealous when I started talking to a male coworker. I hoped that if I ignored him, he would calm down. And the fact that he recently announced that he's been dating a girl for so long made me feel very uneasy. How can I get out of this?