u/urbanlearn

16 years achu Chennai ku vanthu. Rumba kashtapattu Ippo nalla job 6 digit salary. Ellam nalla poguthu, but ponnu kidaikala. Kooda work pandra girls ellam married or committed ah irukanga. Online la thedi thedi time than waste. Matrimony la age 34 nu pathathum reject than pandranga..

Second marriage pakkura ponnunga kuda ok nu sonnen, athuku maplaiku ethachum kurai iruka nu kekuranga. Enna mathiriyana design ithu.. pesama single ah irunthudalama nu thonuthu.

Indha generation la ellarum "talking stage", "situationship", "ghosting" nu pesitu irukom.

Aana enaku oru doubt.

Oru person ah genuinely therinjuka time spend panradhu, random conversations, late night calls, coffee walks... idhellam innum iruka?

Illa ellame fast forward ayiducha?

Curious ah kekuren. Especially girls perspective enna? 🙂

I've spent years dealing with betrayal, fake friendships, and disappointment. On paper, my life is doing fine, I have a stable corporate job and I'm financially independent. But emotionally, I feel empty.

I don't need advice right now. I think I just need someone who will genuinely listen without judging me. I don't even remember the last time I cried, but I feel like I need to.

Has anyone been through this? How did you get out of it?