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None of my bras fit right, I have a 34dd push up (not bombshell padding) from vs that gaps really bad at the top but it does fill out at the gore bit, then i have a 34dd lightly lined from boux avenue and the cups feels tight i think the bands okay + the way the bra is designed its like half padding half lace at the top and my areolas are visible through the lace, then another one from vs (bombshell) which is a 32d and honestly i dont think its the worst i just very slightly spill out but my aerolas come out a lot - I think the band is fine idk about the gore because its one of those like cross strings.

So the calculator gave me 30f and might be more comfortable in 32e. When I first read that, i was like wth till I looked at examples and now im like wait... i might be that size... 😭 I probably should've invested in a normal bra first before coming here but im broke atm. Im sick of buying bras i was wearing 34b for YEARS till I bought a 34b vs bombshell and was like "wtf this does not fit?" Then i thought i was a 32d and now idk what I am 💔

Im not really sure on my shape, but I do think im full on bottom possibly. Idk how to explain this but ive always felt like they start low but they're not saggy?? And like they just look smaller from the front vs the side like they dont match 🥹 They look sm better if i squash them a bit lol. I hope this is easy enough to read im bad at explaining 😽 I also dk what to flair it as

loose underbust: 31 | snug underbust: 30 | tight underbust: 29 | standing bust: 36 | leaning bust: 37.6 | lying bust: 35.5

I bought a 32dd in this bra from boux avenue, realised the band was horrifically small so I returned and ordered a 34dd, my nipples are almost out of the bra but im not sure if its the style of the bra or not😔 the bra is https://www.bouxavenue.com/sale/lillian-lace-balconette-bra/108975\\\_20LK34DD.html.

Anyway I decided to buy a 34dd in the super push up bra (https://www.bouxavenue.com/product-variant?pid=108432&dwvar\\\_108432\\\_color=01DR&dwvar\\\_108432\\\_braSize=36B&glCountry=GB&currency=GBP&utm\\\_medium=PPC-Shopping&utm\\\_source=google&utm\\\_campaign=PmaxLingerieBras&gad\\\_source=1&gad\\\_campaignid=23220157896&gclid=CjwKCAjwtcHPBhADEiwAWo3sJrLai1pBcFv6Y1t5esOaUvnM9t\\\_acXodRDR22Vk\\\_2cWcKlK-QXgxpBoCSc4QAvD\\\_BwE) and its come today and it feels so wrong like the cups are gapping so bad unless I tighten the straps a lot but it hurts to do that😭😭The band is also just too tight ive tried the backwards upside down thing. Its also just not pushing up as good as the picture and im so sad bc if I return I lose money. loose underbust: 33.5, snug underbust: 32, tight underbust: 31, standing bust: 36, leaning bust: 38, lying bust: 37 and calc gave me 34d/dd.