u/vellaowl21

My roommate 20f who is in 3rd yr of college started a relationship with her college best friend (he is muslim n she is hindu and her parents are pretty conservative) she had a crush on him since a long time and when she came to know he reciprocated her feeling they started dating (fyi she wanted to date someone whom she could marry but her feelings for this boy were strong so she dated him knowing full well that there was no marraige or future ) , while dating the boy's ex who was obsessed with him tried to commit suicide (his ex is also a muslim) after her recovery the boy blocked her on everything and focused on my friend and his relationship with her.

After few months he started making sexual advances towards her , my friend first resisted but then gave in and lost her virginity to him. After that he started drifting off and he eventually broke up with her as they couldn't marry as both their families are pretty conservative.

Now they are not dating but my friend can't get over him , still sits with him during classes , hangs out with him etc and recently she got to know that he married his ex 10 months ago and he also lived with her while dating my friend . Now he is married but has again started to flirt with my friend. And she has gone nuts for him even after knowing what he did , she still loves him .

My great grandfather had 4 sons and a piece of land which he divided equally amongst them . After many years all of them wanted to sell their share of land to one of the brother's son( lets call him A) as he wanted the land and they wanted money so during family meeting A said he would buy the whole land and give money to every brother ,at that time my father stood up and said that he wanted to buy my grandfather's share and gave almost double the rate in cash at that time . So A took it and gave my father the land. At that time my my uncles (my fathers two younger brothers) were involved in debauchery and alcoholism and didnt come to the meeting though they knew prior that my father was planning to buy the land. They knew that he bought the land in the meeting. Now after so many years after my grandfather passed away they are demanding an equal share of the land.

For more context my father had suport3d my uncles almost all their lives he pulled some strings and got a job for middle uncle and set up a business for Youngest uncle though he committed fraud via the business and blamed my father then took all the money and ran away for sometime and then also forged fraud documents and tried to take the whole house under their name. My middle uncle hence moved to a new place but now for the land they have both united and demanding to give them the land.

P.S : To all of you asking if the land is under my fathers name , yes it is we have all the legal documents. As for the house its another long story but is somewhat sorted out .

I have mild OCD and I was a peanut butter n jam sandwich with homemade peanut butter (I made it with the perfect amount of sweetness I like) , I made one and was sitting n eating peacefully when my mother came took the jam spoon and dipped it in my peanut butter even though I was screaming at top of my lungs not to do it but she went ahead and still did it just to irk me n the smirked after dipping the spoon and I was enraged to was so fucking enraged n I still get angry while rethinking that horrible thing . I never say a bad word to my parents but for the first time I said angrily gawar to my mother n now I am feeling guilty but also angry that how could she do that when she knows I have ocd n can't bare mixing jam spoon in peanut butter that too homemade

Heya , let's start with some info about my family, my father is the oldest n has 2 younger brothers let's call them A and G (A is the Youngest n G is middle ) , it started when my grandfather passed away and A got finger print on property paper from grandpa when he was on his death bed n not very conscious. We all live as a joint family but have separate homes , my fam lives on the 1st n 2nd floor and 2 uncles have homes on the ground floor n 1st floor different from ours as we live in separate homes but all three of them are joint, thier homes are in one plot constructed by my father n ours is joint with there's but on another plot no. .

Uncle A took ownership of their whole plot and kicked out G or wanted them to pay high rent instead so G moved out , few months ago A and my father had a huge fight because A had brought his drunk friends home and was creating a ruckus and during the fight he said make a wall dividing the 2 houses and my father took it seriously n got people the very next day for the wall construction but A came and again started creating a ruckus in front of whole neighbourhood and challenged my father that if you want to build a wall then break the whole house and create a proper Boundary . My father is a builder and was working on a flat scheme so we decided to shift . The flat is currently being furnished and would be ready in 15-20 days , another thing is that, the well which supplies water to A's house and half of A's house is build in our plot and we are gonna shift in 20 days and then a bull dozer is gonna come and break the whole house on our plot

Pata hai Aaj kya hua , meri family papa ke colleague ke party mein gayi thi jaha majority log western pehenke the and fake accent mein show off kar rhe the , my mom wore a saree and gold jewelry like she always does for a function or party and waha cuisine bhi mostly western hi tha and my mom didn't know many of the dishes so she was asking me the names , one of the aunties overheard us and aake boli mummy ko " arey aap ko toh aadhi dishes pata hi nahi aap kitne ignorant aur purane ho " and my mom replied " hanji western khana mujhe aacha nhi lagta , kya aap mujhe indian dishes dikha sakti hai kaha hai" and then she took name of some indian dishes jiske naam sunke aunty boli , ye dishes konsi hai mujhe nhi pata and my mom was like aacha apne kudke desh chodo state ke khane ke bare mein bhi nhi pata hai toh ignorant kon hua , pehele apne desh ke bare mein toh sikhlo aache se phir videsh ka sochna.

I was so stoked and happy that my mom stood up for herself so calmly and confidently , I just loved it , meri toh hassi nikal gayi bhai