u/w3irdcreature

My husband PCSd to HI a year ago and i stayed in CA for work. I lost my job 2 months ago and have been receiving CA unemployment while getting ready to move to HI with my husband. Can I continue to receive CA unemployment after moving to HI if I don't plan on changing my state of residence?

I was told by an employee on the phone that I'm not required to submit proof of job search when I certify and I've had no issues certifying for the past month without including proof but I've been selected to attend a RESEA via zoom and the questionnaire I have to fill out is asking where I've applied and for details of my application... am I required to include that information?

I did a contracted social media gig which I filled out a 1099 for before getting fired from my regular job. Idk why I didn't think about the gig work when I filed my claim but the gig took place between 3/10 and 6/2. I was paid on 7/13.

I was let go from my W2 job (the one I filed a claim for) on 6/4. I've been issued one payment from EDD as of 7/23. How do I amend the fact that i forgot to include the 1099 work that i was paid for when I filed my claim?

They're closed today so I can't call and this is stressing me out so if anyone knows what I can expect then I would really appreciate it.

What is the safest way to move art (paintings) from CA to HI? I have 2 pieces that could both fit in a checked bag with frames but not a carry on. I don't know who to trust more, hawaiian/alaska airlines or the navy movers. We had no issues with our first PCS or the movers but I have had one person tell me that their favorite painting got damaged during a PCS and im so terrified of anything happening- these pieces mean so much to me. They aren't extremely valuable (the expensive one is $400) but have extreme sentimental value.

TLDR; Does anybody know of any hacks for moving art pieces safely?

Im venting about this here instead of a more general relationship subreddit because I specifically want feedback from other military spouses.

My husband is almost 5 years younger than me so there is a maturity gap but hes over 25 and I feel like he should be wiser than he currently is. I'm constantly repeating information to him and it really feels like everything I say goes in one ear and out the other. Or like he doesn't think what im saying is important enough to remember.

He's at a shore command right now, most days hes at work for a few hours. Very rarely is his job physically or mentally demanding. I'm trying to rationalize any reason for him to not be able to retain information but at the end of the day I just feel like there's either some deep rooted misogyny thats been instilled in him to not truly respect women or theres just a huge intelligence gap between us which is honestly depressing and scares me to think that could be the reason our marriage doesn't last.

I know its pretty common for women to feel like men don't listen but at what point do I need to decide that this just isn't going to be sustainable for me?