u/wantstobe_dead

I rescue my current cat last year around august, he was positive with fcv,fcov, and gia. thank gosh negative on fpv But he survived, we tested him early this year he was negative in fcv,fcov and gia. He is already spayed when he was 6months old and he also got his 4-in-1 vaccines, anti-rabies when he was 5 months old. He is up to date with his antiflea, deworm and vaccines.

I was gonna adopt a new cat from one of the shelters, so i had to do a full check with my cat again. This time I ask for felv,fiv and fip. He was positive with felv and fip and I was informed that I can't adopt another cat that is negative on felv.

My cat is energetic and has appetite his blood chem ag is 0.8 at normal that's why the vet rule it as non infectious but I am gonna have prc test this October. October bec he have meds that he has to take for 30 days such as the thrombo care. The vet said I should just continue his immune systems vitamins.

Most of the vet clinic here in Philippines still doesn't have the felv vaccine.

Can't I really adopt another cat? it's just I worried that my cat will be lonely bec I work in the office 9hrs+ and sometimes when I check the cctv he would just wait in the window and will not even eat.

Any advices and suggestions?

F(28) earning 70k, my partner M(30) 25k. I'm getting old now, kaya naghahanap na ako ng bahay. I found a preselling house in bulacan. Kaya ko naman sya solo 17k monthly. pero sobrang strict din dapat budgeting ko. I am also renting pa 12k rent ko. I calculated everything kanina like if I pay on my own for 30 yrs and grabe nakakapagod agad makita ung numbers. To think this house will be "Ours" in the future, well on the other hand if kinasal kami may pre-up lalo ako lng nagbabayad. pero either way nakakapagod salo ko lahat not just the monthly nung bahay but all the bills sa akin. Kase nga di pa kaya ng salary nya. I kept pushing him to upskill kaso wala di ko alam thought process nya. Pinupush ko sya to get insurance, death and life insurance or kahit mp2 pero idk sa kanya. Hinahaltak ko sya pataas kase gusto ko sabay kami mag grogrow e.

He is still living with his parents, d naman sya bread winner but late sya nag start sa corporate around 28, yrs old sya non. While ako I started asap pag ka graduate ko 8 yrs na ako sa work industry. I wasn't able to build my ef dahil sa family i had when i was starting sa work and I am just building my emergency fund ngayon. I got insurance like st peters, sunlife and also investment like mp2. I am trying to be ready for my future and investing sa health ko. While sya idk.

My friend got a house sa pagibig almost same ng monthly amort. pero the thing is hati sila ng jowa nya. Kaya d mabigat. to think lahat ng nakikita ko kaya nila nakakayanan ung magkabahay kase may kahati sila sa lahat. Yung partner na may sense of responsibility nakakainggit yon. Sobra.

And kung tatanungin nyo ako why i am still staying probably bec may utang pa sya sa akin. Okay naman sya in terms sa ugali e generous naman sya when he can give. He is asking me to be patient and understand where he is coming from. But until when? like tumatanda na kami. Until when. Probably makikipag break ako once na settle nya na mga utang nya sa akin.

Hi I am in my late 20's and 1 yr since I started living alone. Sakto yung kinikita ko sa lahat ng bayarin at pag papadala sa mama ko. Nakakatabi ako 5k -1k per month starting this year lang, since last year naubos ipon ko dahil sa pagbukod ko (bumili ng mga gamit sa apartment). And I have 40k in my savings. Wala pa nga ung emergency fund.

Ang dami kong gustong gawin. Gusto ko matuto mag trade (I tried once pero nasunog lalo maliit ung capital ko) I realize na wala akong extra money for fun. Di ako makagala like out of the country at pag out of the city naman namamahalan din ako. Gusto ko mag aral for 2nd pero wala di din kaya sa ngayon. I am trying to self learn na mag VA pero d tuloy tuloy at naguguilty ako.

May mga times na gusto ko pagkauwi ko pag pahinga lang dahil drain sa work, drain sa byahe. Pusa ko na lng nagliligtas sa akin kase kung wala pusa ko probably wala na ako. Andoon yung guilty ko pag nag sscroll ako sa social media na para ba na masama mag pahinga kelangan naghuhussle ka kada segundo o minuto. Ang wish ko lng naman is mabuhay ng maayos at isang good paying job na kaya tustusan ang lahat at good governance. Pero parang impossible mangyari sa pinas.

Tipong di na nga ako mag aanak dahil d ko afford na in this economy tapos ang daming tax pa kinakaltas sa middle class. Bukod doon napaka anti-middle class ng government natin. Bawal sumali sumali sa anong programa dahil may trabaho ka naman daw. Parang tanga.

Parang gang panaginip na lng ata mag karoon ng bahay sa puntong ito. Pag namatay mga pusa ko siguro doon na lng ako susunod wala na talaga ako nakikita na liwanag sa buhay ko.