u/wavykelp555

Hey all! Any suggestions for this white girl (and her husband) to rent or borrow formal traditional Indian attire? I would buy or order online but there’s a 50/50 chance I can go to this wedding due to a medical thing happening shortly beforehand, but I really would love to be ready in case. So trying to keep the cost down too especially since there’s a chance we can’t go :/

Any leads are super appreciated!! And if anyone is willing to lend theirs (happy to pay) you would go down in history as my hero!

Edit - adding my sizes! (Difficult bc I am pregnant and will be newly postpartum)

Top- usually a small, I’m approximately a 34DD right now
Waist - best if adjustable and flaring out because my natural waist may have gone back down to a S-M by then? But I will have quite a little puff on the lower belly.
Height - 5’4 and happy to wear either flats or heels if that helps get it closer :)

Pregnant with my first and she’s due August 28! However I’m likely to go beyond that and as such she will either be the very youngest in her class if she’s born before sep 1, or the very oldest if she’s born sep 2 onward. I know the rule here to enroll in Kindergarten is “turn 5 on or before sept 1.” (And same date for TK, but 4yo).

I am wondering if I’m correct in thinking that if she’s born before the cusp, for SF public school, we can opt to keep her in daycare one more year if we really feel she’s not ready or could use an extra year for confidence/skills/maturing? Whereas, if she’s born on or after sep 2, we sort of have no way to “move her up,” no matter how ready she seems? (Or is it more challenging to get done?)

I’m seeking stories and logistical factual help from people who have enrolled their kids in TK and kinder, considered moving up/holding back etc.

Not really after medical advice re inductions or even data on advantages of being older versus younger etc, I have all the info I need there. Her father and I had very different experiences in school re: readiness and I don’t want to project onto her what would have been good for us - just want to meet her and learn who she is and set her up for success. So my goal is flexibility :)

Thanks!!