u/wediealone

When it comes to zodiac compatibility pairings, whether romantically or otherwise, I often don’t see these two signs pop up together.

Now I know all signs can (and do!) build meaningful friendships, partnerships, marriages etc. But as I read more about how two signs can just so completely complement one another they are often described as “soulmates” it makes me wonder.

I’m a Pisces sun, Pisces moon, Libra rising. My sibling is Cancer sun, Pisces moon, and Leo rising. Both my parents are Aries across the boards on those three planets - so it was lots of Fire and Water in our house, which wasn’t always a good thing!

But I’ve noticed earth and air signs keep me grounded, keep me at peace. Fire signs allow myself to be spontaneous, actually live out my fantasies, and take risks when I’m often too hesitant to take them. And I believe as a water sign I encourage my air/earth/fire signs to tap into their intuition more, lean more with the heart than the head, and be gentle and be someone that they can talk to.

My first boyfriend was a Virgo which did not work out. Total opposite of me! My next serious relationship was a Scorpio. Here’s what trips me out though - from everything I read, the fish and the scorpion are supposed to be perfect for each other and a match made in heaven. Well, it didn’t exactly work out like that for me.

Now I am seeing an Aries man with Aries moon. I can see it. But I don’t have a lot of info about how these two signs jive in terms of romantic compatibility. I guess it is rarer? I want to say again, I know all signs can get along! But as a sensitive Pisces my parents’ Aries fiery temper always bummed me out, so I hope that by dating this man, he recognizes my sensitive nature when it comes to communicating.

Can’t find much info on this particular duo. Astrologers who know more than me, what can you tell me about an Aries & Pisces relationship?

I’d love to discuss this! Thanks!!

Hi everyone. I think I need some advice. I post here a lot, so you all probably know me by now, lol.

I would appreciate hearing the perspective of survivors in this situation. I’m in my second year of being NED. I finished herceptin in June of 2024. Got my annual mammogram and ultrasound tomorrow morning.

I thought maybe as the years go by it would get less daunting. But my anxiety is still very much there. My hands are shaking thinking about tomorrow morning. My surgeon called and said he would discuss the results with me this week as soon as it comes in. I already saw him last week because I had some changes to my nipple, when he examined me he said it was due to radiation. I apologized to him because I felt bad for being so panicky - I’m post active, disease free, and I don’t want to take up his time to see other women who are really going through it with chemo etc.

I can’t seem to shake this nervousness though! I can’t even count how many mammograms I’ve had, but every time I have one coming up I get an anxiety attack. My cousin is a cancer survivor. She lives in Portugal. She’s been NED for ten years now. She’s the only person who understands what I’m going through and what it’s like. I’m in Canada and because of the time difference I’ll be calling her when I’m at the hospital tomorrow and I know she will help calm me down a bit.

Does this get easier with time? I mean, it’s already been two years. I guess two years is not a lot. But I had clear scans too even when I was going through herceptin and they took it all out after my lumpectomy. I feel so depressed.

When did it get better for you all? I hope I’m not terrifying any of you in the thick of things right now. But I just need some support and words of wisdom. My cousin says she doesn’t even worry about it when she goes for her annual scans as she has learned to stay positive and realized it’s out of her control. A very good mindset yet one I deeply struggle with.

Thank you, and love and hugs to everyone here.

I wasn’t sure how to flair this, I’m sorry mods, I see the survivor support isnt there anymore.

Hi everyone. I was diagnosed with HER2+ BC in 2023. I finished all active treatment June 2024. Chemo, lumpectomy with node removal (10 nodes removed), 19 rounds of radiation and the standard protocol of Herceptin as well as Kadcyla since I didn’t reach PCR after surgery.

I’ve been doing well since being NED, I get my bi annual scans, although I have slight lymphedema in my arm and hand. I wear a compression sleeve and glove for this.

Lymphedema has been a struggle, I’m still in physio and doing swimming/yoga/gentle exercise every day to try to work out my arm. As far as side effects from treatment goes though, I guess I’ll take it. I’m not on tamoxifen or anything since I was negative for PR.

I woke up this morning and noticed my left nipple (cancer side) was raised and red. I’m not even sure how to describe it but the “ring” around my nipple is raised and a darker colour than my other nipple (other nipple looks chill - flat and same colour that it’s always been). I don’t have any pain, but the fact that my nipple is raised and looking a bit angry is really freaking me out.

I showed my mom and she agrees that it looks irritated so I called my surgeon and I’m waiting for the call back so he can take a look at it.

But of course I am freaking out, thinking maybe the bastard BC came back. No lumps or bumps in the breast, just a wonky little nipple.

I had discussed with both my onco and surgeon about some tightness I was still having in my chest and they said this is common from the radiation. So perhaps it is still the rads that are making my chest act up? (Why I flaired this a radiation post)

I am admittedly really scared right now. I’m hoping it’s just a side effect of rads and surgery but ugh. UGH. No matter how long it’s been since my treatment, it’s always in the back of my mind that it can come back and it makes me into a ball of anxiety if I think too hard about it.

Has anyone else gotten weird symptoms like this? Has anyone’s nipple just gotten red for no reason, possible from rads (even if it was done yrs ago - I got radiation around Christmas of 2023). I’m just so scared. Maybe someone can reassure me.

Sorry for the lengthy and frantic post. I’m very freaked out rn.

Thank you so much everyone. Wishing everyone well here, this group is so helpful.