
I asked the cards how I am supposed to survive a massive, terrifying life transition that feels like it is stripping everything away from me. I pulled Death.
We all focus on the skeleton in armor riding the horse. But look at the literal reactions of the four living people in the card. The King (ego/status) is dead on the ground. The religious figure (belief/negotiation) is pleading on his knees. The young woman (attachment) has completely fainted. But the tiny child is standing perfectly upright, looking directly into the skeleton's face, and handing it a white flower.
My read: The only way to survive this collapse without being crushed is to approach the ending with the absolute curiosity and lack of ego of a child. If you try to negotiate, fight, or cling to your status, you will be knocked over. You just have to stand there and hand a flower to the inevitable. Do you guys use the child in this card as a model for radical acceptance?