u/weirdo1729

Hi everyone!

I’m planning to attend the 9-day Himalayan Iyengar Yoga course in Dharmkot this September and wanted to know if anyone else is planning to attend the same course.

Also, if anyone has attended this course in the past, I’d love to hear about your experience!

Where are you planning to stay during the course? I’m trying to decide whether to stay at the property itself or look for something nearby.

Would love to connect with others attending and hear any suggestions! 😊

Experience with Himalayan Iyengar Yoga 9-Day Course in Dharmkot?

Hi everyone!

I’m planning to attend the 9-day Himalayan Iyengar Yoga course in Dharmkot, and I’d love to hear from people who have attended this course in the past.

I’m particularly interested in:

• How was your overall experience with the course and teachers?
• How intensive were the classes?
• Did you feel the course was worth doing for 9 days?
• Is there anything you wish you had known before attending?

I’m also trying to decide where to stay during the course. For those who have attended, did you stay at the property itself or somewhere nearby? I’d especially appreciate recommendations for places that are convenient for attending the classes.

Thanks in advance! 🙏

I’m looking for a female flatmate to search for a 2BHK unfurnished flat together, preferably around Kalyani Nagar / Kharadi. Planning to move anytime after 1st August.

No major restrictions from my side — just looking for someone who likes to keep the place clean, peaceful, and comfortable to live in. :)

A little about me: I’m currently working in Pune and recently got very much into fitness, so if you’re also into fitness/sports, that would be a bonus! I’m a fun-loving person (at least that’s what I think about myself lol 😄), easygoing, and would love to make the flat feel like a nice home rather than just a place to stay.

If you’re also looking for a place around these areas and think we’d vibe well, feel free to DM. We can search together!

So here is the story.

We were talking about something, and then he jokingly asked me to do one thing for him (figuring out something related to his driving licence). For some backstory, I had tried to help him with this earlier, and we had also paid for the learner's licence, but that government app wasn't working on the laptop or something. Tbh, I myself hate doing all the paperwork kind of stuff.

So I told him that I am not taking responsibility for this because mera mann ni hai ye sab krne ka, and we had already tried and failed earlier. Iss se better you go to that office or ask your dad etc for agent to fill the form.

Now I know he said this jokingly—nhi nhi tu hi karegi figure out—and I was also like nooo nhi karungi.. mera mann nhi, nhi krna mujhe.. (it was just banter going on).

To usne mujhe kasam de di ki agar maine nhi kiya to he won't give me kisses from his side unless I ask for them. He was saying all this in a joking way only.

I was like, thike no problem.

Aisa maine is liye bola because vo boht baar aise kasam de deta and boht hi impossible kasam's etc, and mujhe convince krna padta to take them back because I believe in kasams, and I don't think we should be casually saying such things.

But iss baar maine socha nhii mai ni convince kr rhii.. because I don't like this kasam waala joke. Also, in this case, I would be the one not getting love, and I didn't want to convince him to take it back.

I wanted him to realise it himself and take it back because he started it.

But maine jab usse bola ki thike no problem, usse hurt ho gya and he said ki mujhe fark ni padta. I said Haan nhi padta.. Andar se mujhe boht fark padta, and that day I just didn't want to explain anything or convince anyone because mujhe low self-esteem issue hai and mere mann mai ye waali feeling jaada strong thi to stand up for myself. So I kept acting like I was unbothered.

And maine usko bol diya bas ki mai kyun convince kru.. tu hi aisi faltu majak and kasam deta rehta.

And ab iss se he was like, tujhe meri koi baat pasand ni aati yaar. And he asked me, tujhe mujhme pasand hi kya hai.. why are you with me??

Again, yahaan pr uss cheej ka point hi nhi tha ki mujhe kya pasand hai. So maine bola ki just because mujhe ye kasam waali cheej nhi pasand doesn't mean I don't love you, and abhi mujhe kuch explain krne ka mann ni hai ki mujhe kya pasand hai tujhme.

And usko aur jaada hurt ho gya ye sunke.

And hamari thodi aur bas ek dusre ko apna apna explain krne ke chakkar mai ladai ho gyi.

Now I am feeling very sad. I was just acting unbothered etc. I know deep down he was joking, but usse bhi smjhna chahiye because aise kasam waale incidents boht baar ho rakhe and maine hamesha bola hai aise mt kiya kar, and mujhe iss case mai lag raha tha ki he should be the one taking it back and not me convincing him.

Ab mujhe boht acha sa feel ni ho raha.

What's your opinion on this?

I know this is a very childish kind of issue, but here I am 😭😭

​