u/whytfyouhere

I need advice because I genuinely don’t know what to do.

Around 15 days ago, I went to a guy’s apartment in Bangalore after matching on Hinge. It was just the two of us drinking. I had gin and tonic, got extremely sick, kept puking, and eventually completely passed out on his couch. I barely remember parts of the night.

The next morning I woke up, took a quick video/selfie there, said bye and left. Only recently while scrolling through my gallery I noticed my gold chain worth around 3 lakhs is missing.

I checked my older photos from that same day and hwo to I was definitely wearing the chain before going to his place. Before meeting him, I was only at my PG the entire day. In the morning video from his place, the chain is gone.

I haven’t confronted him yet because I’m scared of being accused of something or getting blackmailed or manipulated somehow. My family is extremely orthodox and cannot know I went to a guy’s place/drank/hooked up, so I’m basically handling this alone except for one friend who knows.

I know waiting 15 days was stupid, but I genuinely only realized recently after checking my photos carefully.

What should I do now?

- Message him directly?
- File a police complaint?
- Is there any realistic chance of recovering it?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar in Bangalore?

Please give practical advice, not moral judgment. I already know I messed up by blacking out around someone I barely knew.

I need advice because I genuinely don’t know what to do.

Around 15 days ago, I went to a guy’s apartment in Bangalore after matching on Hinge. It was just the two of us drinking. I had gin and tonic, got extremely sick, kept puking, and eventually completely passed out on his couch. I barely remember parts of the night.

The next morning I woke up, took a quick video/selfie there, said bye and left. Only recently while scrolling through my gallery I noticed my gold chain worth around 3 lakhs is missing.

I checked my older photos from that same day and hwo to I was definitely wearing the chain before going to his place. Before meeting him, I was only at my PG the entire day. In the morning video from his place, the chain is gone.

I haven’t confronted him yet because I’m scared of being accused of something or getting blackmailed or manipulated somehow. My family is extremely orthodox and cannot know I went to a guy’s place/drank/hooked up, so I’m basically handling this alone except for one friend who knows.

I know waiting 15 days was stupid, but I genuinely only realized recently after checking my photos carefully.

What should I do now?

- Message him directly?
- File a police complaint?
- Is there any realistic chance of recovering it?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar in Bangalore?

Please give practical advice, not moral judgment. I already know I messed up by blacking out around someone I barely knew.

I need advice because I genuinely don’t know what to do.

Around 15 days ago, I went to a guy’s apartment in Bangalore after matching on Hinge. It was just the two of us drinking. I had gin and tonic, got extremely sick, kept puking, and eventually completely passed out on his couch. I barely remember parts of the night.

The next morning I woke up, took a quick video/selfie there, said bye and left. Only recently while scrolling through my gallery I noticed my gold chain worth around 3 lakhs is missing.

I checked my older photos from that same day and I was definitely wearing the chain before going to his place. Before meeting him, I was only at my PG the entire day. In the morning video from his place, the chain is gone.

I haven’t confronted him yet because I’m scared of being accused of something or getting blackmailed or manipulated somehow. My family is extremely orthodox and cannot know I went to a guy’s place/drank/hooked up, so I’m basically handling this alone except for one friend who knows.

I know waiting 15 days was stupid, but I genuinely only realized recently after checking my photos carefully.

What should I do now?
- Message him directly?
- File a police complaint?
- Is there any realistic chance of recovering it?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar in Bangalore?

Please give practical advice, not moral judgment. I already know I messed up by blacking out around someone I barely knew.

I need advice because I genuinely don’t know what to do.

Around 15 days ago, I went to a guy’s apartment in Bangalore after matching on Hinge. It was just the two of us drinking. I had gin and tonic, got extremely sick, kept puking, and eventually completely passed out on his couch. I barely remember parts of the night.

The next morning I woke up, took a quick video/selfie there, said bye and left. Only recently while scrolling through my gallery I noticed my gold chain worth around 3 lakhs is missing.

I checked my older photos from that same day and I was definitely wearing the chain before going to his place. Before meeting him, I was only at my PG the entire day. In the morning video from his place, the chain is gone.

I haven’t confronted him yet because I’m scared of being accused of something or getting blackmailed or manipulated somehow. My family is extremely orthodox and cannot know I went to a guy’s place/drank/hooked up, so I’m basically handling this alone except for one friend who knows.

I know waiting 15 days was stupid, but I genuinely only realized recently after checking my photos carefully.

What should I do now?
- Message him directly?
- File a police complaint?
- Is there any realistic chance of recovering it?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar in Bangalore?

Please give practical advice, not moral judgment. I already know I messed up by blacking out around someone I barely knew.

I need advice because I genuinely don’t know what to do.

Around 15 days ago, I went to a guy’s apartment in Bangalore after matching on Hinge. It was just the two of us drinking. I had gin and tonic, got extremely sick, kept puking, and eventually completely passed out on his couch. I barely remember parts of the night.

The next morning I woke up, took a quick video/selfie there, said bye and left. Only recently while scrolling through my gallery I noticed my gold chain worth around 3 lakhs is missing.

I checked my older photos from that same day and I was definitely wearing the chain before going to his place. Before meeting him, I was only at my PG the entire day. In the morning video from his place, the chain is gone.

I haven’t confronted him yet because I’m scared of being accused of something or getting blackmailed or manipulated somehow. My family is extremely orthodox and cannot know I went to a guy’s place/drank/hooked up, so I’m basically handling this alone except for one friend who knows.

I know waiting 15 days was stupid, but I genuinely only realized recently after checking my photos carefully.

What should I do now?
- Message him directly?
- File a police complaint?
- Is there any realistic chance of recovering it?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar in Bangalore?

Please give practical advice, not moral judgment. I already know I messed up by blacking out around someone I barely knew.