u/withpeaceandllove

I recently moved to the city centre, not from here originally. Hockley is lovely with some gorgeous small little businesses and an amazing vibe. But the rest of the city is abhorrent, I really want to love it but it has a dark energy I don’t like going out, there is a huge homelessness problem which is obviously sad but the smell of urine is everywhere and makes me feel dirty all the time. There is a general feeling of unsafeness, I don’t even get my phone out. It really sucks because I can see the potential Nottingham has and how it can be such an amazing place. I don’t even have a question I guess I’m just curious what others think

I’ve been with my fiancé for like 5/6 years. I love him so much, he’s my best friend and the only man I’ve really been with as before him I was with women. I am now attracted to men as a whole and feels like a world I can’t dip my toe into, my fiancé is quite vanilla and the sex has never been very good to me. He’s very kind polite ext and now we struggle to have sex even once every 2 months. Idk if my sex drive is high or I crave to be desired. I am constantly going back and forth to weather I will marry him or now, at 29, I would start again. He also provides for me financially and is literally my whole life so I don’t want to leave him, but it’s constantly a radiating thought