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Hannah sets the record straight that yes she was born into a wealthy family and yes she has a trustfund.

says that people are mad at wealthy black americans which is a connversation for another time.

Ironically the wealth came from her white family not her black side.

her grandfather who came from millions & her grandmother who came from millions.

she quote on quote said:

“I HAVE A TRUST FROM MY GRANDMOTHER, NOT MY GRANDFATHER AND NOT MY FATHER.”

which is even more astounding as her grandmothers side got the money from slavery, so on the backs of black people.

Global investment firm Lehman Brothers files an affidavit confirming that, in the 1850s, it profited from the slave trade. The company made the admission so it could continue to do business with the city of Chicago. The revelation provides evidence for slave descendants suing corporations for compensation.

https://www.npr.org/2003/12/11/1543861/lehman-brothers-admits-past-ties-to-slavery

to be honest it would be proper if she did get the inheritance from the fathers side as they do not have any history regarding slavery.

This is a big yikes

I’ve been intentionally pursuing a provider type relationship, a temporary sponsor, and eventually marriage for a while now.

Lately, I’ve realized that the lifestyle I’m trying to build, traveling, attending events, going out, and putting myself in the right environments is becoming difficult to sustain because of my location and changing financial situation.

For context, I’m from a small country in Europe. Most of the wealthy people, successful businesses, and high-society scene are concentrated in one part of the country (think East vs. West Germany). It’s about 1.5 hours away, so every visit is a 3-hour round trip.

I’m in my early 20s, living with my family, and currently in a gap year working full-time, which ends this September. Living at home has allowed me to invest in things that I believe support my goals: traveling to places like Saint-Tropez, Monaco, Capri, Porto Cervo, Palm Beach, and Miami, attending exclusive events, and keeping up with my beauty, hair, nails, and wardrobe.

The problem is that I can’t realistically afford to move to the “place to be” the equivalent of the NYC, LA, Miami, or Bay Area of my country. I would likely have to live in a shared apartment with several roommates, and almost all of my income would go toward rent and living expenses. That would leave little to no money for the restaurants, events, travel, beauty, or lifestyle that actually gets me into those environments.

So I question whether moving would even help. People always say, “Get out there and be seen,” but if I can’t afford to participate, I’d mostly just be walking around nice neighborhoods without actually being part of the scene.

Staying at home has its own downsides. The commute is exhausting, especially since I rely on public transportation. I usually have to leave around 10 p.m. to catch the last trains, so late-night drinks, networking, or clubbing aren’t really an option unless I book a hotel, which isn’t financially realistic to always do.

I also don’t know many people in that city. I didn’t grow up or study there, and while I’ve recently connected with a few like-minded women, we don’t know each other well enough for me to stay over.

As I will be going back to school soon, there will even be less disposable income than I do now. its amost impossible to rent, pay for utilties & food with only 800 € a month.

I honestly feel like I’m at a crossroads.

Being in a small town isn’t helping me meet or connect with the kinds of people I want to be around. If money weren’t an issue, I would move to the big city in a heartbeat or even to places like London, New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, Palm Beach, Monaco, or the Bay Area.
Another factor is that I’m a woman of color. I’ve found that international, diverse cities offer far more opportunities and a broader mix of people than the small town and region where I currently live.
To me, it’s a numbers game. The more you’re in the right environments, the higher your chances of making meaningful connections.

Socializing where I live now doesn’t seem to move me any closer to my goal, but moving would mean giving up many of the things that currently allow me to access those environments.
So I’m genuinely unsure which option gives me the best chance in the long run.
If you were in my position, would you
-Stay at home and continue commuting, even though it’s exhausting and realistically limits me to going into the city once or twice a week due to school, work & travel time?

-Move to the city, even if it meant sacrificing travel, events, and most of the lifestyle that puts me in those environments?

Or is there a third option that I’m not seeing?

hopefully there is someone who is in the same situation or has some experience regarding this

h

I’ve been getting tarot readings since 2020. In total, I’ve spent around €800 and received hundreds of readings.

Not a single reading has come true.
Readers often say generic things like, “In the near future you’ll step into new opportunities,” or “Big changes are coming.” But over the last four years, none of those opportunities or changes have happened.

The same goes for general readings. They divert to love messages & constantly said things like, “You’ll meet someone or A relationship is on your path.”
The funny thing is, I’m 22 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship. So after hearing the same prediction over and over for years, it just makes me wonder why they keep saying it. but its just generic bs.

I recently looked back at old readings , timing readings, and general readings. None of them turned out to be accurate.
At this point, I honestly think it’s all just BS.

What bothers me even more is that many people who turn to tarot are going through a difficult time emotionally. They’re often looking for hope or reassurance, and I feel like those are the people who are most vulnerable to spending money on readings that never materialize.