Hello y'all!
I used spline to sketch the face and then I extruded it. To try to round it I tried to use fillet and revolve. Fillet only softened the edges, and revolve just refused to work. Does anyone have any advice or knows a tutorial I could follow for this? Thanks!!
Hello y'all!!
I used spline to make the shape of the heart, then I extruded it. I thought of using revolve to round it but it did not work. Tried fillet too, but only the edges go softer.
Ignore the grey sketches, they are from different parts.
Thanks!
Hello y'all!
I’m trying to understand a dynamic with someone who seems strongly fearful avoidant/disorganized, and I’d genuinely like perspectives from people who experience this from the inside.
We’ve had a very close connection for around 8 months. There’s real emotional intimacy, affection, consistency in re-engagement, physical closeness, care, future-oriented comments, and mutual understanding. Whenever things are calm and low-pressure, the relationship feels natural and secure.
The problem appears when emotional intensity or structure increases too much.
For example:
after very intimate weekends, emotional vulnerability, or deeper connection or moments where he feels especially attached, and, recently after situations involving family/social integration.
He sometimes suddenly swings into:
“we should stop this,” “I can’t give you what you need,” “you are too perfect, you deserve better,” or becomes distant for 1–3 days (we talk daily, he just gets a bit colder even if he initiates).
But at the same time:
he reinitiates contact himself, there isn’t a day we don’t talk to each other. Seems closeness again, resumes affection naturally, and acts emotionally connected again.
I know this is how avoidants behave in general, and he is pretty funcional too! Whatever thing that has bothered me, I told him and he has changed it inmediatly.
What’s confusing is that his behavior consistently shows attachment, but when overwhelmed he seems to associate closeness with danger or loss of control. And whenever he talks about breaking up, at the same time, he is saying how he loves me and how good I am and how much he is gonna regret or already regrets saying those things, to keep some things in his house so we have to meet so he can give them back… later when saying he has been using them cause he missed me so much, etc. Last time it happened he even cried even tho he had not cried in a decade.
I’m not trying to “fix” him or chase him. I am pretty secure.
I’ve actually been trying to keep the relationship:
low pressure, predictable, calm, with space for autonomy.
And that seems to help a lot.
But, what I’m struggling with is this specific pattern:
intimacy > overwhelm > pseudo-breakup/distancing > reconnection.
For people who identify as fearful avoidant:
what is usually happening internally during those moments? He seems to acknowledge my needs, tries to meet me half-way, listens to boundaries and tries commitment.
I invited him with some of my extended family for the first time even tho he already knows them (separately from me) and we have run into each other a few times, because he already made comments about it a few weeks ago “I gotta go and see that with your family” etc.
He actually likes my mom very much, we three work in the same place.
Does the urge to “end it” actually feel real in the moment? Whenever he states he wants to end it he also states he regrets it. When he says those things his behavior does not match his words. He keeps on hugging me.
I believe he needs me to regulate but also needs a lot of distance.
What helps someone learn to regulate instead of jumping to rupture? I am okay giving him space, but I wanna give him space with communication. What I mean: I don’t want space to be reactive and impulsive, but communicated, so that “pseudo-break ups do not become a chronic pattern.
The other day, after being for a while with extended family, we had dinner and went to his place. He had previously asked if he gave a good impression, and I said yes. Everyone already knew him and my mom likes him a lot as well. But later he started saying he felt threatened, like he had to go meet my family more often, he did not see it clearly, and said we needed to talk. I actually said I did not want to talk at the moment since I was very tired, and if he could take me home so I could sleep. It was late at night. He said “yes, you are right, I will take you home, I don’t wanna say anything bad”, and that was it. He took me home, kissed me goodnight and went to his place.
What kind of responses from a partner make things better vs worse?
And how and when do you establish relationship/regulation boundaries if there is attachment panic at the moment? I usually wait when things are calm to establish a boundary, but in this situation it seems difficult to find the appropriate time since it is an impulsive reaction.
I’m especially interested in experiences from people who eventually learned to stay instead of fleeing when intimacy and structure/ commitment became emotionally real.
Thank you!
Buenas a todos!
Estoy terminando un grado de diseño y tecnología en la UPV.
Tengo habilidades que van desde las artes tradicionales, además de diseño gráfico, VFX, animación, y desarrollo de videojuegos, hasta el desarrollo de aplicaciones web y entornos interactivos. Y un currículum con varios proyectos personales y profesionales.
Por otro lado, tengo trabajo a jornada parcial desde hace 2 años en un negocio familiar con posibilidad a traspaso en el futuro. Estable y fijo de forma indefinida, y aparte, me encanta.
No obstante, es un negocio pequeño, por lo que durante unos años necesito un segundo ingreso ya que en principio no se me va a aumentar ni el horario ni el sueldo.
Creo que ahora mismo, lo que más encaja con mi situación es el máster de educación secundaria. He dado clases a adolescentes alguna vez y lo he disfrutado.
Pero, por otro lado estoy ya muy quemado con la academia. Estoy ya cansado de estudiar. Hay mucha incertidumbre en el futuro para los jóvenes, da igual lo mucho que estudiemos, las cualificaciones que tengamos o las ganas que tengamos de trabajar… la vida ha subido mucho, los alquileres son imposibles y la vivienda un inalcanzable.
También, trabajo 4 mañanas y algunas tardes a la semana, además de tener otras responsabilidades.
Siempre he sido partidario de la educación pública, debido a mis valores e ideología, pero por falta de flexibilidad horaria en la UV me estoy planteando ir al CEU o a la UCV a hacer el master.
Si voy a la UV, la carga mental y académica van a ser muy grandes como para conciliar con el trabajo y la vida personal. Las clases son de lunes a viernes de 15 a 21, por lo que ya tengo claro que dos días a la semana no podría ir, y una amiga me ha dicho que los que han trabajado y hecho el master este curso en su clase lo han pasado mal. Por otro lado, en la UCV y el CEU, la compatibilidad horaria es excelente para mí, aunque las universidades tienen menos prestigio y no sé de qué manera está enfocada la enseñanza, asimismo no conozco a nadie que haya estudiado el MAES en esas universidades.
¿Alguien que haya estudiado en alguna de estas instituciones me puede hablar de su opinión y experiencia? Gracias!
I recently started doing food preservation. So far I preserved fried tomato puree, pickled tomato, medlar jam, and medlar, strawberry and blueberry jam.
Sadly I have some dates that started fermenting, they even smell a little bit already, but I would like to preserve them so that they can be safely eaten in te future.
I thought about making date butter. But, my main concern is safety since they already smell fermented.
Thanks!
The motor will be used to pull a small elastic hair band.
Is a press-fit enough or should I use a set screw (grub screw)?
Should I design for a D-shaft or use a coupling?
Is it better to integrate the spool directly on the shaft or use a hub/adapter?
Any practical design tips or common mistakes
to avoid would be appreciated.
I will attach a reference image ai gave me: https://imgur.com/a/Kk3rO1U
Thanks!
