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I've been looking for a husband for a while, and I finally found someone great. After a year of getting to know him, I'm sure we're a good match.
My dad was on board at first, but then he found out my fiancé's last name. Even though both our families are Muslim, Kuwaiti, and from the same social class, my dad thinks marrying him would dishonor us. He even said it might make it harder for my sisters to get married.
I kept my cool because I'm confident and I respect different viewpoints. Later, my mom and sisters got worried and told me not to date someone outside our usual social group. It seems like they're more concerned about our family's reputation than my happiness.
It is worth noting that my family does not frequently socialize; we typically only gather for Eid. Therefore, they do not significantly influence my decisions. I am financially stable and prepared for this commitment.
I happened to overhear my father express a preference for me to remain unmarried rather than marry this individual..
He also mentioned Alsabah family only marry with in their circle and dont go far, as an example. This is عرف و اصل
I was threatened to be cut off the family, that I will no longer get their support. They scared my by saying life is hard alone. But I have been alone, i built myself by myself and didnt need their help.
I don't get it, this is pure racism that I dont support. To judge a person just because they come from a different tribe.
Had anyone experience this ? What do you think. I need an third person point of view thats not an AI